Emailing an Escort way in advance

[OceanTraveller]

I had recently emailed an escort way in advance of my visit. I will be traveling quite a distance and I wanted to line up my choice. The escort said I could have the booking provided that he would be home. I had told him I would email him instructions to get my pic which happens to be in an ad on the net. He emailed back and said to let him know how to pull it upetc. I emailed the instructions and said to let me know how he liked it and if he is not happy with it : it would be fine. I would not have hurt feelings and could go to plan B. I have not heard anything. I am thinking that NO news is BAD news. He has never been reviewed here and I am taking a chance on hiring him. I tend to think that if he doesn't have the time to respond or dislikes the pic he should let me know.My questionis : if I don't hear anything in a month should I forget it or email back and ask how he liked the pic. I hate to email a lot , but this may be a vision of terrible service to come if I hire him. Escorts?

Clients ? I'm in the dark here. The pic of this escort is a GOD....... but no reviews, maybe he is such a discreet escort that people don't want to write reviews to keep him for themselves....

HELP.....

[Guest Sean]

Ocean, try e-mailing him again. On ocasion mail has been sent to me outside my ISP and it was never delivered. Give it a shot and see if he responds this time. A close friend has a hotmail account and sends me mail all the time and it has taken days and sometimes weeks before it ever arrives in my mailbox.

[Casteran]

I agree with Sean, email him again. I have sometimes booked escorts months in advance to ensure they were available, sometimes it has worked out, others have cancelled at the last minute - I believe that is the chance you take and if they do cancel their loss not mine. It doesn't harm to be persistent, the worst he can say is no.

[Guest Billyboy]

He asked for your picture? Why would you hire someone that asked for your picture?

[Guest MrB]

It happens, why would that be a problem?

[NY Observer]

HI Ocean,

Not that I'm an escort (far from it), but I do still have opinions.

For a change, I agree with Sean. Email him again.

 

A few other thoughts.

 

1. Some escorts prefer to work on a daily booking basis, that is, they don't like to make appointments until the day of the appointment. I think this is even a remote possibility in a big market, with lots of action, but booking in advance is an inconvenience to them. Among other things it requires them to communicate with you on some level between the appointment and the meeting.

 

2. We've had the discussion before on pictures. I don't think it's appropriate for an escort to ask for mine, at least not before we've established a rapport. I have gone so far to tell one very nice escort that I felt it was unprofessional and he actually removed it from his AOL profile. Many of the potential clients an escort could see are married and/or very closeted and wouldn't want their name/picture on the web. That's not my case, but I don't really want an escort deciding to reject me because "I'm not his type". For many of us, seeing an escort is a way of not being rejected. I don't like going to a bar, where I am uncomfortable to start, and approaching someone only to find out that they won't even give me the time of day. I think that hiring an escort, even though it's quite expensive, when done addictively, usually cuts out this rejection process. I would never agree to see someone who insisted on a pic first, even if he was the most gorgeous man in the world. (ok, so I exaggerate a bit)

 

3. I am a bit leary of gorgeous escorts who have no reviews. I feel Hooboy's site, while not perfect, allows us to make good (better) decisions about who to see and more importantly who not to see. When I am traveling to a new place, I generally look at the escorts by region and investigate from there. I have generally found it to be a good process.

 

Let us all know how it works out. Best of luck to ya.

[Bilbo]

It would be very helpful towards getting accurate advice if you would let us know what city this escort is in. If it is a small market, it would help explain several things, ie. it would make it more likely that a new demigod would not have a review here yet.

Also, in a small market, like my Houston, I have found that a great many client candidates want to call me and come directly over. In fact, I usually insist on a one hour's notice for my own dignity, telling myself that I am an escort, not a fighter squadron, ready to run out the door yelling Tora, tora, tora at the first sound of a klaxon. However, even that loses me some clients. Then, going the other direction, I have noticed that the longer ahead of time I allow a new client (even a few of the established ones) to make an appointment, the greater the percentage that he will not show up for it. So, if this man is operating in a small theater, there may be a built in prediliction towards not taking you seriously until two or three days before your appointment, assuming that he is a good businessman and a quality escort to begin with.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

LAST EDITED ON Jul-21-00 AT 10:51AM (EST)[p]LAST EDITED ON Jul-21-00 AT 10:49 AM (EST)

 

My god, what an image you have planted in my mind --

 

Bilbo in flight suit at the ready, waiting to run out the door "yelling Tora, tora, tora at the first sound of a klaxon".

 

Now that's what I call ready, willing, and able...

 

You get today's prize for making my morning. It is little tidbits like this that make my vists to the borads worthwhile. Thanks.

[Guest Quinte]

RE: Bilbo

 

Yes, Bilbo, made mine too! FUNNY.

 

Oh, do email the escort again.

 

Quinte DuSoleil

 

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nubiandreams@hotmail.com

[OceanTraveller]

RE: Bilbo

 

I was probably too vague. I had volunteered my pic to the escort and he said he wanted to see it. I had said let me know if it is o.k. etc. I did that because I wanted him to know in advance what I looked like. I am not too bad, but I did not want to be treated bad if I was not what he wanted. The escort is in the London market and is the most handsome escort in the U.K. I think. I guess that explains no reviews. (too gorgeous for words?):-)

 

p.s. you know some escorts treat you bad if you are not their type. I am giving him a chance to say no.

[OceanTraveller]

Justa brief message. I emailed again and asked how he liked the pic. If I do not hear anything I will look some more. Thanks all for the replys !!!!!!!!!!!!:-)