411 on Intimacypro in Florida

[Trick]

Any info on this guy?

 

https://rent.men/intimacypro

[+ TheBigO]

hello. I had a massage session with Intimacypro last week. He is adorable dude and very much a sweetheart. The massage was good, 90 mins flew by. PM for more details if you want.

[CBA]

Anyone else had any experiences with Intimacy Pro?

[+ StLouisOct]

BUMP

[Trick]

Bump

[Trick]

I had a weird text exchange with him just now. I asked about him cumming, he said he had negative and awful experiences with clients fixated on cumming. He also said it’s something he doesn’t always do. I asked if he will at least try. His reply was weird, he said, “Here we go”

 

His last text was, “It’s off the table and why are we talking about cumming. If that’s what you’re looking for move on.”

 

What do you think happened here?

[+ Balthazar]

I had a weird text exchange with him just now. I asked about him cumming, he said he had negative and awful experiences with clients fixated on cumming. He also said it’s something he doesn’t always do. I asked if he will at least try. His reply was weird, he said, “Here we go”

 

His last text was, “It’s off the table and why are we talking about cumming. If that’s what you’re looking for move on.”

 

What do you think happened here?

It sounds like he has had negative experiences with clients/potential clients expecting him to cum. As he saw you going down that path, he decided that you weren't a match. His ad mentions "connection," "journey," and "intimacy." The focus on cumming might feel more like a transaction, which he mentions avoiding. One can't guarantee that they'll cum, and the pressure to do so might adversely impact the experience by getting in the way of intimacy. I have no experience with Intimacypro, so these are just guesses and assumptions.

[Trick]

Cumming for me is the climax of the journey. In that sense, we weren’t a match. I sensed that he did not even want to try.

 

To be honest, I would have settled for a “let's see what happens" reply but he got agitated in our exchange. I apologized for asking the wrong questions and ended the conversation.

[hougalwizard]

Ironic that someone with the handle “Intimacypro” has negative issues with cumming.

[Wanderoz]

Cum on demand can be difficult if all your clients make the same demand in the space of a day. Did you offer rehydration therapy?

[excelntsvc]

he politely said no ... get past it and move on

[+ Keith30309]

Everyone is looking for something different.

 

I enjoy the journey and intimacy is exactly what I’m looking for. I’d err on the side of setting no expectations about a companion’s finish during our time and instead focus on each moment.

Besides, I’ve had lots of meets when “Bam” - ejaculation... immediately hop out of bed, declare victory and head for the door. I love for my companions to enjoy our time - that’s a big deal for me - but an autonomic response ending with baby-batter flying is a tiny piece of that.

But I understand how that is super-appealing to some.

The variety of interests across the spectrum is always interesting to me.

[Trick]

he politely said no ... get past it and move on

 

I don't think he politely said no. The conversation turned sour when I asked about cumming. I found this inconsistent with the "feel" of his ad. I was expecting a cordial conversation.

 

Anyway I did get past it and move on

[Trick]

 

[marylander1940]

Cumming for me is the climax of the journey. In that sense, we weren’t a match. I sensed that he did not even want to try.

 

To be honest, I would have settled for a “let's see what happens" reply but he got agitated in our exchange. I apologized for asking the wrong questions and ended the conversation.

 

did you offer him a tip?

 

 

 

I don't think he politely said no. The conversation turned sour when I asked about cumming. I found this inconsistent with the "feel" of his ad. I was expecting a cordial conversation.

 

Anyway I did get past it and move on

 

Maybe you were a little bit too explicit... He freaked out or so it looks!

 

Picture yourself in his place.

[marylander1940]

Cum on demand can be difficult if all your clients make the same demand in the space of a day. Did you offer rehydration therapy?

 

he politely said no ... get past it and move on

 

Exactly!

 

I've never been a minute man, even when I was young. I always joke that if I was straight I'd be very successful because I just can't cum in 1 or 5 mins like most guys.

 

Imagine having sex with someone you're not attractive to and being forced/demanded/expected to cum! Sounds like slavery to me!

 

If those are his pics, he has a lovely ass!

[AceHardware]

I'd never heard of postimage before, and it's nice they don't require an account or login (though it's a little confusing that their URL has an "s" on the end, and their official name doesn't). Thx.

[Trick]

 

Maybe you were a little bit too explicit... He freaked out or so it looks!

 

 

I thought the consensus in this forum was that the client be clear about his expectations of the session? No sarcasm here, can somebody please give me a better way of expressing what I am into?

 

My standard line is, "I am a bottom who likes kissing and taking cum in my mouth." Is there a better way of saying that in a text message?

 

When I feel that the provider would get it, I say, "I want KFC - Kiss me - Fuck me - Cum for me". Too direct?

[marylander1940]

I thought the consensus in this forum was that the client be clear about his expectations of the session? No sarcasm here, can somebody please give me a better way of expressing what I am into?

 

My standard line is, "I am a bottom who likes kissing and taking cum in my mouth." Is there a better way of saying that in a text message?

 

When I feel that the provider would get it, I say, "I want KFC - Kiss me - Fuck me - Cum for me". Too direct?

 

Just make sure you tip the guy!

 

I'm sure you'll have guys willing to do that for you.

[MrMattBig]

I thought the consensus in this forum was that the client be clear about his expectations of the session? No sarcasm here, can somebody please give me a better way of expressing what I am into?

 

My standard line is, "I am a bottom who likes kissing and taking cum in my mouth." Is there a better way of saying that in a text message?

 

When I feel that the provider would get it, I say, "I want KFC - Kiss me - Fuck me - Cum for me". Too direct?

Your standard line is perfectly fine.

In your convo, I would have altered your on the table message like this..."I would prefer to cover all my interests if we meet up, or at least have them on the table. I am easy going and not pushy, and understand sometimes things don't always end to completion. If you would keep it in play as a possibility, then I will look forward to meeting you."

[+ Gar1eth]

I thought the consensus in this forum was that the client be clear about his expectations of the session? No sarcasm here, can somebody please give me a better way of expressing what I am into?

 

My standard line is, "I am a bottom who likes kissing and taking cum in my mouth." Is there a better way of saying that in a text message?

 

When I feel that the provider would get it, I say, "I want KFC - Kiss me - Fuck me - Cum for me". Too direct?

 

In the middle of a conversation -and depending on the flow of it-conversations can head off in totally different directions from the way we had planned. It's even worse with text messages because they are devoid of audible and visual clues for both speaker and listener. Looking at the conversation as an outsider, I think you may have mentioned cumming two or three times after he talks about not promising that. Maybe since he probably gets asked that question "hundreds" of times a day, he gets easily irritated on that subject.

 

Gman

[Trick]

 

"I would prefer to cover all my interests if we meet up, or at least have them on the table. I am easy going and not pushy, and understand sometimes things don't always end to completion. If you would keep it in play as a possibility, then I will look forward to meeting you."

 

Can I just copy and paste this in my future communications with providers? ?

[former lurker]

 

 

I don't see how these texts offer any support for your position. He was polite. You were flogging a dead horse. Once he said not to plan on him cumming, you persisted with "is it off the table". You also acknowledge that you were responsible for the tone of the exchange by asking the wrong questions. Unless you didn't mean that, and just said it to curry favor somehow. And if you did mean it, why the negative post in the first place?

[former lurker]

I thought the consensus in this forum was that the client be clear about his expectations of the session? No sarcasm here, can somebody please give me a better way of expressing what I am into?

 

My standard line is, "I am a bottom who likes kissing and taking cum in my mouth." Is there a better way of saying that in a text message?

 

When I feel that the provider would get it, I say, "I want KFC - Kiss me - Fuck me - Cum for me". Too direct?

 

You should be clear about your expectations, and move on if those expectations differ from what is offered. But, and it's a fundamental but, don't expect you won't offend some providers by being so direct. And don't take umbrage with them if they find your directness off-putting. I know we toss off lines about it being all about what the client wants, etc., and that's generally true, but you're dealing with actual people about intimate activities, not buying a household cleaner at Home Depot. If you offended the provider, apologize and move on, and don't badmouth the provider for not reacting positively to your blunt request. If he is rude or offensive, that's one thing. This guy was not. He simply found your persistence after he was clear to be offputting.

[MrMattBig]

I don't see how these texts offer any support for your position. He was polite. You were flogging a dead horse. Once he said not to plan on him cumming, you persisted with "is it off the table". You also acknowledge that you were responsible for the tone of the exchange by asking the wrong questions. Unless you didn't mean that, and just said it to curry favor somehow. And if you did mean it, why the negative post in the first place?

Not quite sure if a "here we go" is the most polite or professional response to "but will you at least try, or is it totally off the table?"

Sorry, but the escort in question could have not responded at all or say something like " if that is what is necessary for you to enjoy our time, then I'm not sure we would be a match"

 

Sorry, may just be personal bias, but "here we go" is that passive aggressive nonsense that makes me question out future as a society.

 

Sure maybe he was annoyed or had an off day, and by his profile still seems like a great time would be had. All I know is as an escort myself, if I was looking to hire someone and got that here we go reply, I would feel the same way as @Trick

Edited December 17, 2019 by MrMattBig