Kissing

[Choclate Cub]

I was wondering what are the stipulation for kissing for you guys?

 

I know some escorts dont do it at all,some dont mind kissing,and others are open to kissing after getting comfortable with a client.

 

I was just wondering cause kissing is a big one for me. I have a hard time maintaining a hard on with out kissing.

[liubit]

I am with you, @Choclate Cub. In my book, no kissing, no hiring.

[inthepit3]

It's not an important factor for me so I go along with what naturally arises in the session.

[Choclate Cub]

@liubit right kissing is just an aphrodisiac for me lol.

 

Do you meet any escorts who are not open to kissing from the start,but if they are comfortable with you they will kiss?

 

Cause there are some guys who are nice,have a nice ass,but only kiss if they are comfortable with a client. Which makes me nervous that we meet and there is no kissing.

[hypothetically]

I was wondering what are the stipulation for kissing for you guys?

 

I know some escorts dont do it at all,some dont mind kissing,and others are open to kissing after getting comfortable with a client.

 

I was just wondering cause kissing is a big one for me. I have a hard time maintaining a hard on with out kissing.

 

It varies greatly from escort to escort. I personally enjoy kissing and always communicate “kissing is a must.” But truthfully, most of my clients cannot kiss and then I just feel like I’m being eaten. And that’s no fun.

[Choclate Cub]

@hypothetically . Make sense it's hard to enjoy kissing when the other person not good at it. Plus I know alot of clients dont like to kiss maybe that's why alot of escorts dont kiss.

 

I talked to a escort yesterday. He told me he doesnt kiss. His clients dont ask to kiss just sex. Even though I feel like kissing is part of sex lol

[TruthBTold]

It varies greatly from escort to escort. I personally enjoy kissing and always communicate “kissing is a must.” But truthfully, most of my clients cannot kiss and then I just feel like I’m being eaten. And that’s no fun.

 

I always get nervous when I read something like this. How do I know whether I am a "good" kisser or not? It seems that kissing is sort of an ebb and flow sort of thing. I may not feel open and comfortable in the beginning but see how the other person does it. Then I adapt to what they do. I have a feeling they do the same thing so that we come to some sort of kissing compromise. But I don't know. It really is the thing that I am the most apprehensive about. Much more than sticking a cock in my mouth.

[hypothetically]

I always get nervous when I read something like this. How do I know whether I am a "good" kisser or not? It seems that kissing is sort of an ebb and flow sort of thing. I may not feel open and comfortable in the beginning but see how the other person does it. Then I adapt to what they do. I have a feeling they do the same thing so that we come to some sort of kissing compromise. But I don't know. It really is the thing that I am the most apprehensive about. Much more than sticking a cock in my mouth.

 

Ask a good mate you trust and smack a good one on them, they’ll tell you. If someone has never told you you’re a phenomenal kisser, you probably are not.

 

Truthfully, I loveee a transparent and honest client. Clients are so afraid to say I’m not good at x, y, z to an escort. You’re not getting paid to be good at anything you do, we are. I would much rather a client say, “how’s my kissing?” Or “how was that?” Or “I’m not sure I’m the best kisser” and I aid you in your “technique” rather than aggressively having my face eaten and being turned off. Really. Speak up.

[RandyC]

Ask a good mate you trust and smack a good one on them, they’ll tell you. If someone has never told you you’re a phenomenal kisser, you probably are not.

 

Truthfully, I loveee a transparent and honest client. Clients are so afraid to say I’m not good at x, y, z to an escort. You’re not getting paid to be good at anything you do, we are. I would much rather a client say, “how’s my kissing?” Or “how was that?” Or “I’m not sure I’m the best kisser” and I aid you in your “technique” rather than aggressively having my face eaten and being turned off. Really. Speak up.

Where do I sign up for instruction?

[Andy2]

One piece of advice for both escorts and clients: You may or may not be the best kisser, but do this beforehand--antiseptic mouthwash, so that your breath is fresh. A lot of guys don't follow this basic prep.

[Ryan Roman]

One piece of advice for both escorts and clients: You may or may not be the best kisser, but do this beforehand--antiseptic mouthwash, so that your breath is fresh. A lot of guys don't follow this basic prep.

 

Fresh breath and being freshly showered is always greatly appreciated...

[Ryan Roman]

It varies greatly from escort to escort. I personally enjoy kissing and always communicate “kissing is a must.” But truthfully, most of my clients cannot kiss and then I just feel like I’m being eaten. And that’s no fun.

 

I personally love kissing, and always kiss when with a client, but I've encountered a number of clients over the years where kissing = face eating... Make the best of the situation and push through...

[TruthBTold]

I personally love kissing, and always kiss when with a client, but I've encountered a number of clients over the years where kissing = face eating... Make the best of the situation and push through...

 

What exactly is "face-eating"? I see the term used but honestly have never known exactly what it means. Thanks.

[Shawn Monroe]

Can attest to having felt like my face was being eaten off.

 

One of the best ways to describe the behavior from the other end, at least in my experience, is that they feel that kissing is just putting their tongue in someone else’s mouth and moving it around vigorously. Or just licking anything it comes in contact with.

 

Many times you just get your nose, teeth, face forehead licked, or they lunge at you tongue-already-out, and it can be hard to meet them halfway.

 

Don’t get me wrong though - many clients are great kissers.

 

One thing I try to keep in mind is to lead with the lips, not the tongue; the tongue will eventually follow.

[Guest]

Can attest to having felt like my face was being eaten off.

 

One of the best ways to describe the behavior from the other end, at least in my experience, is that they feel that kissing is just putting their tongue in someone else’s mouth and moving it around vigorously. Or just licking anything it comes in contact with.

 

Many times you just get your nose, teeth, face forehead licked, or they lunge at you tongue-already-out, and it can be hard to meet them halfway.

 

Don’t get me wrong though - many clients are great kissers.

 

One thing I try to keep in mind is to lead with the lips, not the tongue; the tongue will eventually follow.

 

LOL. I love kissing clients, but some definitely can use more coaching than others.

[+ oldNbusted]

Ask a good mate you trust and smack a good one on them, they’ll tell you. If someone has never told you you’re a phenomenal kisser, you probably are not.

 

Truthfully, I loveee a transparent and honest client. Clients are so afraid to say I’m not good at x, y, z to an escort. You’re not getting paid to be good at anything you do, we are. I would much rather a client say, “how’s my kissing?” Or “how was that?” Or “I’m not sure I’m the best kisser” and I aid you in your “technique” rather than aggressively having my face eaten and being turned off. Really. Speak up.

 

I don't need to ask, I know I'm not good at it. The sheer amount of scar tissue in my face limits mobility, so I really appreciate a guy who can work with my limitations. At least it means I have to lean towards being less aggressive, no face-eating.

 

To be fair, the advice given to clients in this forum tends to emphasize not down-playing oneself, as that can create a negative vibe during a meeting. So that might explain people proceeding boldly.

[+ StLouisOct]

I remember how startled I was when an escort said he liked my kissing and was tired of so many clients immediately trying to eat his face. It’s been said that the best cock sucking is by one who is making love to the cock. Not chowing down, but starting out gently with lips caressing. Same goes for lip kissing.

[Quincy_7]

It never ceases to amaze me how an escort can be willing to suck a dick but not kiss.

[hypothetically]

It never ceases to amaze me how an escort can be willing to suck a dick but not kiss.

 

The same way a client can be fickle about what he eats but dives face first into an escort’s asshole.

 

Additionally, most of the time (not always) clients do a better job of washing their dick than they do brushing their teeth. So.

Edited February 21, 2019 by hypothetically

[+ Italiano]

It varies greatly from escort to escort. I personally enjoy kissing and always communicate “kissing is a must.” But truthfully, most of my clients cannot kiss and then I just feel like I’m being eaten. And that’s no fun.

Oh well @hypothetically , I would definitely know how to enjoy kissing you and have you enjoying it! Italians are the best kissers.

Damn distance....

[Trick]

It never ceases to amaze me how an escort can be willing to suck a dick but not kiss.

 

Julia Roberts’ character said something about kissing in Pretty Woman.

[Trick]

When I was younger, there was an electrifying sensation I got from kissing, especially if the guy did it tenderly. I got a combination of goosebumps, chills down the spine, involuntary quivers, etc. I remember cumming just from those sensations. With age, I’ve practically lost all of that, together with the sustained erections. I had my doctor include T level in my recent blood work, it was within normal range.

 

Oh if can only turn back the hands of time.

[liubit]

When I was younger, there was an electrifying sensation I got from kissing, especially if the guy did it tenderly. I got a combination of goosebumps, chills down the spine, involuntary quivers, etc. I remember cumming just from those sensations.

Yes, kissing is electrifying. And if the guy plays with my nipples while kissing, well...fireworks!

[AndreFuture]

I enjoy kissing and thus far, my clients have been pretty decent at it, too. For me, the #1 thing is fresh breath. Brush and floss your teeth, and wash your ass (dick, too, but you'd be surprised by how many forget the backside), and we'll have a great time

[hypothetically]

Oh well @hypothetically , I would definitely know how to enjoy kissing you and have you enjoying it! Italians are the best kissers.

Damn distance....

 

Indeed they are. French, honorable mention.