Moving on Up to an Escort Relationship

[Guest craigrc]

B, if you will review my posts in this thread I don't think you will find any requests for information about your relationships. If you chose to provide such information in response to my "abrasive" comments, that was done at your initiative, not mine. As for those comments, if something seems odd or silly to me I'm going to say so, and I'm not in the habit of letting others censor what I have to say. Again, if you don't like it, don't read it.

 

I'm not sure why you would care whether I understand or accept your relationships. Your life is your life, live it as you choose. You haven't asked for my advice, and I haven't offered you any. I have responded to Jason's request for advice, and I think I've made myself pretty clear in that regard.

[Bilbo]

You have overstated your reply to the request for advice in such a way as to disparage my relationships. And as such, should have expected a reply, perhaps should have even foreseen a defensive reply. In such a context, the simple statement, "I have seen no evidence that they work" as well as being a statement is also an implied question, since you know that you have predisposed me to a reply and you know that I feel that I have such evidence. Your earlier reply makes it plain to me that you are in the habit of asking implied questions without realizing that you are doing so. Should you start so realizing, you will not be surprised so often at people giving you information which to the best of your knowledge (at this time) you haven't asked for. However, since you have made it clear that your implied question is not one you are conscious of and therefore you do not explect a reply, I can without being impolite refuse to continue to try to answer it. You will want to make one more posting to this thread, at least, in order to show to yourself that I have left the field and, therefore, the victory to you. If you word it in such a way that it doesn't insult me, you will have this proof.

[Guest craigrc]

B, I was about to suggest that we both leave the field, since there is nothing more that either of us can say that would be responsive to the question asked by the author of this thread.

 

I had to laugh at your "implied question" notion. The fact that you enjoy sharing your experiences with others is nothing to be ashamed of, and you shouldn't have to construct elaborate rationalizations for it. I told you that if you don't like my posts you needn't read them. The same applies to me. If I hadn't found your posts interesting I would have ignored them. If you'd like to start your own thread on the subject of open relationships and why you think they can work for some people, I'll be happy to contribute.

[Bilbo]

Girlfriend, I had to laugh out loud at your not realizing that we hijacked this thread pure and simple and that the original author had left the discussion some time ago.

And your out of hand rejection of the idea of an "implied question" had me rolling in the aisle. I wonder if I started a thread on that if we could attract the attention of a high school debate coach for some advice on that subject?

Tee hee, giggle giggle

[Paul Revere]

Enough Already

 

Hey Hoo, can you close this now annoying thread. It started with a good question and some interesting responses. But, it has turned into an uninteresting and annoying private conversation. Can't these guys just send e-mail to each other privately.

 

Enough!

[Guest craigrc]

B, I'm not your "girlfriend," and if you are looking for some other "girls" to "giggle" with, look to someone else. There's nothing to stop you from starting a thread in which effeminate men can discuss how much fun it is to pretend they are women. That's not a discussion in which I will participate.

 

Revere, it won't upset me if our host decides to terminate this thread, but if you don't care for it why are you spending your time reading it? Someone needs to explain to you that this activity is V-O-L-U-N-T-A-R-Y. Quit complaining about the results of your own choices.

[Paul Revere]

I can't know how stupid the thread has become until I read it, genius. I will certainly abandon this one, and avoid other postings by you. Thanks

[Guest Quinte]

RE: Enough Already

 

:-)

[Bilbo]

RE: Enough Already

 

Dear Paul,

While the two of us have been badgering each other here, the little lady has not been seen, at least not by me, to be bothering anyone else on other threads.

I did try to stop two messages ago. I said that I wouldn't be back on this thread and would let him have the last word so long as he could do it without further insulting me. He couldn't so I came back.

We didn't seem to be bothering anyone else. It seemed like y'all had enough sense to quit reading this thread once you could see where it was going and that ours were the only two voices alternating.

This IS my last posting on this thread. But as I said before, my Daddy said that you make your point twice and then you come out swinging. And, I might add, the only thing Mama wouldn't allow to be said in our house was Shut Up.

So you are warned that he will now be free to overstate his negatives elsewhere on this bulletin board. And he is warned that if he treats me like this again, I will not wait past the third posting to call him Girlfriend.

Love, Bill

[Guest dandday]

Good Luck! Five years ago a friend of mine picked up an escort in a bar in Downtown Portland, OR. I thought he must be the bigest looser in the world if this guy was interested in him. (He had the repretation of picking up only trash).

This guy was an employee of mine at my Hotel and we went back to the Hotel. When the three of us arrived, the escort sugested getting a pizza, so we did. After we had finished, my friend suggested they should go to his suite. The escort refused and said he wanted to stay with me, if not he would go back downtown. I had used escorts in the past, but no way was I interested in this man.

To make a long story short, he spent the night, went home the next evening and moved in with me the next day. We have had a wonderful life together. I have never had anyone to love me like he does.

One word of caution. He was 33 when we met and had been plying his trade since he was 18 (he quit the business when we met), we had great sex for the first two years, but it started to get less and less frequent as time went on. Now we are lucky to have sex once a month. He has no interest in sex. He says it's too much like work and he can (AND DOES) do without it. I've told him I need sex and that I was going to get it. He said fine, just don't bring it home.

Just for the record for all you sceptics out there, no he is not fooling around on me. No, I am not blind nor a fool.

Has anyone else encountered this?

Dan