TylerGrovesNYC

I honestly really dislike it when clients send Me photos unless they're photos of them showing off fetish wear, or a formidable collection of gear that might be relevant to the session. I would also say I dislike it when they send Me their age/height/weight but I've found that those clients are the better ones---NOT because they're disclosing their stats, but because they're polite and decent enough to say ANYTHING about themselves VS the usual postcards from the "Goof Troop" on any given day ("where are you", "U host? Cock Size???", "God damn your hot, I'd love to service you off the clock" Photos are wasted data to Me. As a straight provider I really couldn't be concerned with how My clients look, let alone a photo of a cock with no face attached to it. TL;DR: I find it unprofessional to presume that a photo of your looks will sway Me in any different direction on My treatment towards you. I also think that if I were to want such information; I Myself would be acting unprofessional. ^ (These are words from the Dominant Top who doesn't give AF & it's no skin from His back either way) ^ (LET'S FLIP THE SCRIPT) ALL SEXWORKERS have the right to be selective on who they see or the clientele they're building regardless of anything. If I were a 5'1" bottom weighing 120 lbs, not a day older than 21, and doing this to get by while in My junior year of pre-law @ undergraduate.....I might not want to engage an aggressive Dominant Top weighing 275 lbs @ 6'5" who wants an overnight and is requiring that both of us "parTy". -If something goes wrong with the session, I could be raped or forced to finish the appointment for free, and I would have slim chance to defend Myself if pinned underneath him, atleast without weapons -If I have to defend Myself, and I do use a weapon, which leads to charges, I'm going to be in hot water on My law career & might have spent 3 years studying for nothing -I'm being asked to use something I'm unfamiliar with by someone who could easily overpower Me and I don't know My reactions -I might be too tight anally or too small physically to even give him the steady rhythm or bounce back effect that your average Top enjoys during penetration Two sides, same token.

Look man. You did what you had to do. Nobody wants to be a tattle tale; nobody wants to be that "snitch" or be accused of being the one who slandered. When it comes to this you HAD to. It's super easy to say, "man if that was me I'd have knocked his ass out and triumphed back down the stairs". It's easy to tell you that as someone whose just hearing the story, and make you feel small for reporting him. Fact is: most folks wouldn't do as they say they would. "High school" machismo cannot last forever; it's unsustainable and those who choose to take that road end up with felonies, records, huge fines, and several years taken off their freedom. Compared to the world of straight escorting, gay escorts have gotten away with murder for way too long. I'm glad there's a place like this that can help enforce some standards.

As a BDSM/Taboo/Fantasy/Fetish Provider I get asked to do role play all the time. Many come to Me just as they say it's tough to get others to do their scene. Only time I flat out say no is when someone is asking Me to be submissive. That case, whomever it was clearly paid zero attention to My ad. Other than that I'm pretty open and I have worked on some pretty elaborate and impressive role play scenes--and it's definitely a fun reward when you & the client are clicking and syncing on each other's back/forth in the roles.

My standard rates are 300/1hr, 500/2hr, 700/3hr, 900/4hr, 1200/Overnight. I always ask all clients what they want to do in a session before confirming an appointment. If the session is simple or less strenuous I will come down to 250 if I think it's fair. If a client wants to worship My feet or My body and massage Me for 1 hour while I lay on the couch, I come down no problem. If I am showing up in full gear & going to be doing bondage, S&M + a fast, hard, & long Topping--its 300 firm If a client balks right before we are about to seal the deal because 300 is too high--or he says "I have 250 is that OK?" I will 8 times out of 10 come down VS not get the session. What's super interesting is that I used to charge $200/hour for sessions that were BDSM ONLY. I probably still would except I haven't gotten one of those in a while. Back when I first started, guys would ask for a session that was just heavy paddling, caning, flogging, spanking & just whipping his ass until he had marks on his back. Nothing sexual. I would do $200 for them as I felt it was fair if there was no sex; and probably just because I love BDSM so much 😜 If you are looking for a $200/hr provider; as someone said earlier on this thread---your best bet would be to book a session with a provider that is a multi-hr or long session in which the hourly rate averages out to $200. The more hours you book the better deal you get. Shit, My SleepOver overnights are 12 hours & they cost $1,200. That's $100/hr. I charge extra TBD for the all-night hardcore overnights where we don't sleep, but that's 12 straight hours of play--$1,500. I don't know what to say if you're looking for a $200/hr escort in NYC & you want only 1 hour. Be careful--if the price is too good to be true-it probably is; & you get what you pay for. You might get a very new novice escort who is charging only 200 & that comes with all the headaches of an inexperienced guy. You also might get catfish, scammed or robbed as often those people will make fake ads with a low price to snake in as many as possible. Then a completely different guy shows up & starts video taping your face or threatens exposure, blackmail etc. I've had a few clients who had that happen to them in the past on RentMen, and often the price was unusually low. Maybe in a different part of the country you can find the low rate you want as a standard, but NYC is the complete opposite.

As a provider, the answer to this is simple: The messages that garner My immediate response are the messages that I know in My experience are from those who are serious + good & fun clients. 10 times out of 10 -- these are the message from the best clients. Hey, Tyler - really nice profile on RM. I'm visiting NYC until Wednesday, I'd love to book a session if you have any availability? Fit, laid back, 35yo, bottom sub here, 5'10" 175lbs, easygoing. Also, wondering what is your donation? Looking for a FFisting/Flogging/Verbal Dom session, love it + if in leather. Thanks, let me know, John. ^ those are the clients that usually end up becoming regulars, book multi-hr & big ticket sessions (even on the first meet), and are often all set & ready to put down a deposit to pre-book at the time of their inquiry when texting These are the messages from clients that are usually the worst of the lot, or even worse - timewasters "U avail?" "Hi", "hey", "hot pics", "nice cock" "found U on RM can U host looking for right now or in 10 minutes" Finally, these are the texts from total worthless trolls/pranksters/fakes; these are the ones that 99% aren't even worth answering other than for entertainment before I block & blacklist them on all platforms that escorts frequent to do their screening: "Send pic" "pic?" "send cock" "where r u?" "send vid" "can u vid chat" "hey can I see ur vids on fansonly? can u send here? went to the site but it says I have to pay" and so on & so forth, ad nauseum

I worked with him in NYC, we were dancers at Adonis Lounge together, he's a friend of Mine & I can vouch for him -- good provider; ethical sex worker. I've also filmed with him. Nice guy, definitely way more aware & present than your average dancer/escort.

I'm an established provider & I require a deposit of 25% for all FUTURE appointments (i.e. an appointment taking place on a day that is not today, inwhich I will have to block out time in My schedule for you & prepare toys, leather, etc). If the client doesn't like that, I tell them that they're welcome to hit Me up on that actual day but if I am already booked by someone else, or in session at the time of the call, it's first come first serve. I work mainly as much more of a Pro Dom how than an escort & for fetish/bdsm this is much more standard in that niche of things. Guys wanting a session in a dungeon, or with lots of toys are usually going to plan in advance, and they don't mind doing this. Other guys who are looking for more escort related things but are willing to plan in advance don't mind this either. I tell all clients however who are hesitant they should always screen a provider before ever giving a deposit. -do they have adds on multiple platforms (not just RentMen) I am on Eros & Tryst as well -do they have social media? Twitter -do they have a video presence, on multiple platforms (I personally have 3: OnlyFans, ManyVids, ModelHub) -do they have a website? -do they have reviews? If so how many? I've got 35, all 5 star mostly If the provider checks off all or most of these boxes the greater the chance is of them being legit & not walking away with your deposit money When it comes to money upfront before the session starts, I personally don't do this, I wait until the end. For all same day appts I don't require a deposit- the client has the desire fresh on their mind & the likelihood that they will follow through is high. I find that for all future appts that a deposit is not collected (unless I know the person), if a deposit is not received, they aren't showing up & I wasted my time blocking out a slot for them in My schedule, or restricted my personal life when I didn't have to. Sure, I lose a little business this way, & it was much harder to get deposits in the beginning before I became well known, but the pay off of enforcing that system is invaluable to Me.

I'm open for business & accepting new & prospective clients. I'm fully vaxxed, and being in NYC, most folks here are as well. I don't encourage kissing if the client doesn't ask for it, if it happens it happens, if they ask for it I will allow it. Business here in NYC is slower than what is usual for an October. Time wasters & fakes are always going to be a thing: best way to eliminate them completely?? USE A SCREENING APP I rarely EVER get time wasters & fakes these days, I have them all virtually blocked (unless I'm touring a different city) & I intercept & block new ones coming in, because of the "Mr. Number" app. I've used Mr. Number since February of 2020 & it's been a lifesaver. Just the other day I blocked a client before even responding because I screen all inquiries by phone on Mr. Number. Well, his report on Mr. Number had 5 other escorts saying he's a fake sending people to addresses that no one is at, creating fake appointments. Blocked. I also make sure to ALWAYS flag a timewaster or fake, so the next guy coming after Me doesn't have to waste his time