As a bottom, I'm very partial to Hello Cake products. For anal, I love the Tush Cush brand, which is a mix of water-based and silicone. It's very creamy so it doesn't feel slick like water based lubes. It helps me relax and open up more easily. Though we do use Uber lube and Swiss Army as well for jerking off, and I'll use Swiss Army with a lube launcher if I'm with someone who is very hung.
Tush Cush - Hybrid Lube for Anal Sex | Hello Cake
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Designed for added comfort during anal sex, this hybrid lubricant is long-lasting, moisturizing, and easy to...