Jason_Stark

Great point! Thank you!

Looking to relocate with another provider, is Sacramento a good spot? Any other good spots for providers to live in? Thanks!

I don’t know if this is allowed, but I’m in the northwest! Give me a look on RentMasseur under @Thescrappyjock and hopefully either you’re in Seattle or I can come down to Portland! Cheers!

So before becoming a provider, I was a total bottom. Lived and breathed bottoming. I’d turn guys away constantly who wanted me to top them. Ever since becoming a provider, I’ve gained more confidence as a top and actually am pretty damn good. And my dick is usually always hard and the first one in a group to get hard and stay hard, so I naturally become the top. But still down inside I know I prefer to bottom and choose to do so for my recreational sex. But in my experience as a provider, I have been told in every city, if I want work that I have to list myself as vers at minimum, some have even suggested having to say top/vers or top or else no one would hire me. Their explanation is that when stating I’m a top, top clients will still hit me up and majority of clients are bottoms. It’s unfortunate that having worked for over a year now in multiple cities, I have to say they are true for the most part. Stating that I am vers on my profile and having an average cock, I get contacted to top more, despite almost every guy that has tried my ass says it’s my greatest weapon lol. So it seems like I give off top vibes based from appearance and attitude. Which is much to my frustration because I’d love to broadcast myself as a true and power bottom, but having done that before I saw a steep decline in business and was forced to go back to saying vers. Sorry for the long winded response, long story short as much as we want say our true preferences, all escorts are hired based on what the client sees them as and so it’s easier to say versatile than lose clientele.

Thanks dude!

Seriously, this thread has given me so much hope during this sad and anxious time. I’ve had about 20 Clients, new and regular, decline to meet because of this. I’m in between careers and this is my main form of income right now, so it means the world that there are clients who are actually thinking beyond themselves and willing to help wherever they can. Keep up the good spirit and know that your efforts don’t go unappreciated! Stay safe and healthy all!