Jump to content

humboldt

Members
  • Posts

    373
  • Joined

  • Last visited

3 Followers

Recent Profile Visitors

The recent visitors block is disabled and is not being shown to other users.

humboldt's Achievements

  1. Last I saw, he's become a realtor. I think he's left this scene and the wrestling scene behind. He also recently hosted a website under his real name where he presented himself as a "spiritual life coach". I came across it back in June and bookmarked it. It has since disappeared. I did a meet up with Marco once, about five years ago, and I had a great time. But that spiritual website was a bit oddball, tbh. I hope he is well.
  2. There are pros and cons to using pre-existing sites for shows. The biggest plus is that the billing infrastructure is there. You don't have to worry about getting customers to pay, or having PayPal freeze your account for suspicious activity, or any of that. However, those sites take a significant cut of your earnings. For example, OnlyFans takes 20% of all earnings; Chaturbate takes 45%; and Flirt4Free takes anywhere from 27% to 50% based upon a sliding pay scale formula that depends upon how much revenue you generate – all of which, of course, is before taxes since all of that does get reported.
  3. Unfortunately, the scene is based almost entirely on trust. The customer almost always ends up paying in advance, usually through PayPal, Venmo, CashApp, etc. So, as you can imagine, there is a lot of scamming that occurs, as people will sometimes take the money and run. Luckily, there are forums where the scammers are often called out, and there is a site (TheBestFlex) where guys who advertise their services with profiles can be reviewed by customers.
  4. Hi Rudynate! I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.) Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts. Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.). Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm. Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there. I hope this helps!
  5. Several years ago, and much to my surprise, I ran into a similar situation with a guy I hired down in New Orleans. Only in my situation, the clingy stuff occurred after the meet-up. The sex was okay. He was quite affectionate, more than I would have expected. And his rates were extremely low. When I returned home (several hundred miles away), he continued to text me. And text me. And text me. I kept the conversation alive because, if I'm being honest with myself, I was kinda flattered by the attention. But at some point he started talking about coming to visit me, which wasn't in my plans. And then he started floating the idea of moving to my state. Over time I realized that he was probably in the business to find somebody who would take care of him. Luckily somebody else turned up and played that role for him, and we lost contact. But there were moments in all of that when I felt far more vulnerable than I would have liked. I don't know if you should just ignore your person or block him. But I can offer this advice: Don't ever meet up with him. That would likely only exacerbate what you're already experiencing now. Sorry you're having to deal with this!
  6. I primarily use that site for camshows and videos. But even with that in mind, I always approach it with extreme caution. There are tons of scammers in the muscle cam industry, including among those who do meet-ups. Almost all of the guys who advertise on there are straight, which is fine by me when it comes to cam shows. But they tend not to be professional escorts. If they are actually willing to do meet-ups, as [uSER=12309]@TheOtherGuy[/uSER] mentioned above, they have TONS of boundaries. I think a lot of them expect that the meet-up will basically involve you worshiping their muscles with very strict expectations about what you can and cannot touch. They like the idea that somebody might get turned on by them, but they're not much into what could be the consequences of that. So their limitations on what you can and cannot touch applies to your own body, as well. In many instances, their prices will be as high or higher than what you might find from actual escorts (at least in the United States). If you're looking for just cam-shows from the models, be aware that the guy who owns and runs the site (Dan) is notorious for deleting negative reviews at his discretion -- a point that arises rather frequently on another forum (YoungMuscleStuds), much to Dan's ire, who is always quick to jump into the conversation about why he is justified cleaning up the reviews. My strong advice: If you want reliable reviews and discussions about guys, stick to this forum and to Daddy's reviews.
  7. Many wrestlers for hire are just that: folks you can hire to wrestle with you. Some go a bit further into the realm of muscle worship. And a few are actual escorts. I do not know where this guys fits along that spectrum, but I thought I would mention him here. At ThundersArena, he goes by Scrappy: http://shop.thundersarena.com/collections/scrappy?sort_by=created-descending At TheBestFlex, he goes by Caleb and is available for "private flexing sessions" in Kentucky: http://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Caleb
  8. FYI: These are different ads. https://rentmen.com/antuannmiami (from Muscle Lover 2's post) https://rentmen.com/Antuan (from dutchal's post) I can't speak to the latter (Antuan), but the former (Antuanmiami) is still using pictures that link to a fitness model's social media. That individual does not live anywhere near Florida.
  9. I think there have been two Marcos mentioned in this thread: Marco Rossi and Marcowrestler. Marco Rossi was a very hot performer who started is porn career in the early 90s. Marcowrestler is relatively new to the scene. He's only been around for about a year. For the record, he is who he portrays himself to be. In other words, if you were to hire him, he's the guy who would show up at your door.
  10. You and I are in the same boat. I also asked one of his previous scene partners about him and was told he didn't escort. He would also be my #1 pick of performers. I'm also not sure if he's still in the industry. He took down his Twitter, but scenes with him are still being released over at ActiveDuty.
  11. Absolutely beautiful Freudian slip....
  12. It may have been him, but I am very suspicious of Antuannmiami's ad. Some of the pics that are used in this ad link to a person's social media. That person has been living in Chicago and just moved to Denver.
  13. And this? http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/mikesilver-los-angeles.114702/#post-1108947
  14. That's a joke, right? Sometimes it's difficult to tell in this type of setting.
×
×
  • Create New...