I want to share this recent experience with a neophyte provider, but I don't wish to identify him. He listed himself on RM as a 20-something bi man. Posted only one photo that didn't show face or body below the ribs (upper back shot). The implication was that he's some sort of bodybuilder.
I visited him in the suburban residence that he shares with his gay housemate. They played football together. His age is correct, but the impression I got from the photo didnt pan out: he's not a toned muscle guy. He's beefy, on his way to chubby. It was a hot day and the house's a/c was minimal. Two fans didn't help much. His bed is a double (he thought it was a queen, ha!) with barely enough space for us two tall linebackerish men. I told him he should market this as a "dorm room experience." Stubbly body hair. I had trouble getting into the mood, especially since he doesn't like to kiss. (That's extra!) He couldn't get hard. His cock was nothing special. I blew the whistle after 20 minutes, even though he was willing to "keep trying." Paid him full fare, but told him his rates are a bit steep for RM. He said most of his customers come from Grindr. I don't blame him; on these trial excursions, a good time is never guaranteed.