Hired him when he was in Los Angeles recently. He’s got phenomenal massage skills. Very deep. Which is great. But he’s kind of a stuck-up asshole. Actually brags about how great a masseur he is. It reminds me of a conversation I was having with a coworker the other day where I said to him, "It doesn’t really matter how talented you are. If you’re an asshole, and nobody wants to work with you, you’re not gonna go far in this business."
And I agree with a previous commentor. He spends a lot of time trying to arouse you, and then says at the end, “you can finish yourself off." which if you think about it and analyze it, it’s really the asshole thing to do.
I was so aroused at that point I did finish myself off. And the rough part came in where he started choking me. And I had to have him loosen his grip. So I suspect that’s the rough stuff that was alluded to previously in this thread.
So yes, he’s got incredible massage skills. But he’s so full of himself and outwardly cocky that he comes off like a dick.
Now we all know those behaviors are just a cover for an incredibly low self-esteem searching for love and validation. I hope he figures that out one day and changes.
And if he ever reads this thread. My message to him is this: You need to let your work speak for itself. Constantly telling people how great you are has the opposite effect than what you intend. And figure out how to be nice. You have the potential to be great. But you’re sabotaging yourself with your behavior.