This forum really helps on what to expect. Via text, you can ask the massuer what you will be both wearing which can help to know if he will be nude. And then once you meet the massuer at the start of the massage, you can respectfully ask about MT/HE. It depends on your vibe with him. That's just based on my experiences. So it really helps if you research about the massuer on this forum if you want to know what to expect.