speaking of music, pick appropriate music. One guy had quite loud Hip Hop music. Not disrespecting the music, but NOT appropriate for a massage. He had to step out of the room. I ran over and turned the volume down. When he came back he cranked it up.
Yes that is partially on me for not saying something. BUT (always a but) a good masseur would ask if the music (temp lighting etc) is ok before proceeding and throughout the massage - IMHO