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I just finished 3 by J Ryan Stradal: Kitchens of the Great Midwest, The Lager Queen of Minnesota, and Saturday Night at the Lakeside Supper Club. All set in the midwest, centered around the food/beverage/restaurant industry, and all the life story/stories of generations of family. Good stories, nothing too bleak the characters face their share of struggle. The second was my favorite of the 3.

As far as I know, they're totally open, and have been since last year. I was there a few months ago and things were normal. Like I said above, Rich is my go to for a great massage. Marcus is also good, but only massages a few days a week because he also manages the place. No experience with, but I've heard good things about about Alex and Joe in terms of massage quality.

Same...I've heard a few people say that the massage from Gary is sub-par. Would be interested to hear if anyone has tried out the new guys Kevin or Joe.

He was partnered up with Brad, a former and, I think, well regarded Chicago guy (although I never saw him). Looks like they’re both back in Chicago. https://rentmasseur.com/BradsHands

It's not really my scene, but in the city, Teejay's Adult Book Store is probably your best bet if you're visiting the city.

It's not in a business area, per se. It's in the heart of the main gay neighborhood (Lakeview/Boystown). But it's not in the downtown biz district, or the nearby shopping/hotel districts just north. It's about 4 miles north of the business district. But still in a well populated, safe area (but again, use good judgment, especially very late. The neighborhood has had crime problems on and off but it is overall a safe place). Pretty much every place is in the place is popular. a little something for everyone. I think the "suck ramps" there a two areas with raised walkways, and a lower level that allow for a guy on the lower level to suck a guy on the upper. I've certainly seen that put to use. But no, I'd say the place will be much busier in the late evening (after 9) and weekends. A weekday, noon time visit might be craps shoot, but it won't be empty. but I've never been at that time.

Sauna is probably a stretch. Steamworks is a full blown bath house (and I mean that in the best possible way). There is a large wet area, including whirlpool, group showers, a sauna and larger steamroom with several nooks and benches (it's like a long hallway with little offshoot rooms), even a weight room. There's a second sauna an the third floor and showers on all floors. There's porn playing everywhere. Otherwise, there are rooms to rent (or just get a locker), mazes to walk around, glory holes, slings, benches...you name it. Overall, the place is large, clean, and safe (although use your head and store your valuables). I've only ever been in the evening, and the later you go, the bigger the crowd. But I have no doubt you could find a lunchtime crowd or after work crowd too. It's not a covert cruising spot like your neighborhood Russian Bath or anything. It's there for sex, or watching, or whatever you want in between. I'm sure my other Chicago brethren can chime in.

They're notoriously slow about updating the site, and could have a better social medial presence in my opinion. Wouldn't surprise if me the staff list is out of date already! I do need to get back in there soon.

Technically speaking, I think Rich is the best. Never had a bad massage with him. Marcus is also good (he's the manager and only gives massages occasionally though). I've heard good things about Alex, but never tried him. Antonio also has a pretty good following.

I think it's the same Alex. If you request a reservation on the site, the provider's full name is there. I've hear Alex gives a good massage, but never had him myself. Rich or Marcus are still my go to's for a quality massage.

I had hit Spunk at Pieces just before lockdown. Had one guy who definitely took advantage of the time (told him 1 or 2 dances, and he went over whatever I told him, and I think would have kept going if I hadn't looked back a the timer), and of course wanted payment for the extra (I did, but was aggravated). That wasn't the general experience though...all the other guys I got a private from stayed on the agreed count. All pre-Covid though, so I'm sure the guys have turned over somewhat. Just a reminder to peak at the clock...if it feels like you're going over, you probably are.

That seems like more of an anomaly on the quality side, for Sir. But sometimes the newer guys aren't as up to par. Rich, Marcus, and Antonio are all experienced and give quality massages. I've found you just have to experiment to find the right fit, quality wise there. In terms of looks, I'll be honest, the expectation there isn't that they're models. It's not the same sort of set up as the NYC type spas. The guys are all licensed, legit providers. My recommendation would be to give it another go, take some time to relax in the steam before or after, and you'll have a nice time.

That's surprising. The guys there are usually a pretty good (licensed, trained, legit). But I've had the one or two there that I didn't care for either. Who was it with?

Anyone ever try the mud wrap treatment at Sir? Thinking about treating myself to something like that before my massage for my first time back...any feedback guys?

This is his more adult Twitter. Also has a linked tree link and a link to his more tame Twitter. Assuming this is fine to share, since he shares/advertises his massage services on them. https://mobile.twitter.com/dilfydrew

Agree with the response above 100% I believe a private dance for 15 mins $100 to the dancer and $40 to the house, so not cheap, and you can go longer than 15 minutes, but it doesn't get any cheaper per 15 mins (maybe less to the house). I'd say the key with the private dances, is make sure you have a good feeling for the guy (no pun intended). Chat him up a bit, gauge his attitude, etc. If you like his looks, but he seems like he doesn't want to be there, or is barely showing interest in you, that usually translates into a private. But most of the time, if he seems like a personality match, you'll enjoy yourself for the money.

I'd say yes to the VIP room if you see a guy/guys you're interested in. Scope things out out for a while and then decide. It's worth it. the later you go, the busier it will be, and the later in the week you go, the busier it will be (in my limited experience there). More customers usually means a bigger selection of dancers, but can also mean they're paying attention to a regular or just tougher to get their attention. Of course, a heavy tip on stage will usually get the job done! I went pre lockdown on a Tuesday (I think) and the place was dead just about the whole time. But, I found a cute guy I liked and had a good private dance with him, and then chatted for a while after, since it wasn't busy at all.

Probably depends on where you're going and the cost of private dances, if that's what you're looking for. In a club like Swinging Richards, a lap dance out front is $10, in back (non private) $20, and getting into the back room will cost you a one time fee (prob $20-$30 or so, I forget). A 15 minute private dance will run you about $140...$40 to the house and $100 to the dancer. And don't forget cash to tip the guys on stage (a few bucks to show interest...a few more if you're really interested). Plus cash for the cover/door charge and drinks. In short, cash is king. Bring what you're comfortable spending (and stay away from the ATM!!!). If you're thinking about a few 15 minute private dances, you can easily spend $400 to $500 no problem...I"m sure much more. Some may think that's a lot. Some may think it's not enough. My approach with dancers is generally to tip one I like on stage, wait for him to come by and maybe chat a while You'll get a feel for the guy that way. You might get a sense if he's straight or gay (which might matter later), and how aggressive he is. Remember, these guys are here to make money, and a big part of the game is flattery. In a club like SR, on a busy (or not busy) night, guys will be working the floor, trying to drum up private dances. Most of them will ask you if you want to go in the back room for a private. I usually give them a "maybe later, I'm going to hang up front for a bit" Even If I like the guy, I might hang out for a while to get a feel of who's there, and who I might want to splash out cash for a private for. Some of them will be persistent...just be polite and stick to your guns. Being respectful to the guys will go a long way, in my experience. Tip first, and the let the rest go from there. Don't get too handsy (especially if you haven't tipped) up front. It's hard to give advice if you're going to go for a private dance. In my experience, if a guy is straight, or comes off as aloof or "macho" upfront, they're usually not much fun in the privates. The friendlier guys tend to be just that, but don't expect anything more than the dance going in, and don't go for an uncharge after the fact unless you're truly interested. As always, buyer beware. Some guys will play games, especially if you're paying "by the song". If you agree to a lap dance, tell him you'd like 3 songs, or whatever, so he doesn't just keep going and tell you you owe him $100 when you thought you were in for $20. In short...use your head, be nice, don't spend more than your comfortable with, and have fun!

Yep...I use dirty roulette too. No getting banned or anything...that's what it's there for. Good selection of guys. Might take a bit to find your type, but it's a good time.

Sweeney Todd...I spend the whole show wondering what the hell was going on.

I still have a few episodes in season 2 to catch up on, but agree, it's a good watch. Good development, interesting twists, and engaging characters. The characters in the front of the train are more developed than those in the back, but that seems to be shifting a bit through the season. Overall, a 2 thumbs up from me.

The second season is going to focus on the oldest brother, who's not to shabby in my humble opinion. https://www.pride.com/tv/2021/1/21/bridgerton-just-got-renewed-second-season

The Special dark chocolate bars in the hershey's mixed mini bar bags was/is always my favorite, even when I was a kid!

I went to Catholic school took and it was part of the curriculum from about 6th grade on, including a separate night for dad's to take their sons and mom's to take daughters to a all boys/girls lecture. But, dad pre-empted all that when he had one too many cocktails and decided to sit me and my twin sister down together to have the talk while mom was out one night. Mom was not pleased (with my sister's participation)! I still remember this nugget..."I don't know why they call it that...I haven't seen a bird screw a bee yet!"

I can't argue with that, but it can still be a good time, albeit a little different. I think the key there is to get a sense of the guy outside of the private. I've had guys give me some pretty lame dances back there. But, I've had some pretty damn fun times too. In my experience, you're at a strip club because that's where you want to be, so make the best of it and find a guy you mesh with before splashing out the cash. I usually start the night there with a pocket full of cash and no expectations and see where the night (or the backroom) takes me.