AJ Doyle

I re read my comment. I was up late and I guess I didn't word what I said very sensitively. I wasn't bragging though that I'm doing well. I was just sharing what I did to prepare for this... Mostly cause I'm a glass half full kinda guy, so I'm always planning for bad shit to happen. But I can see how it came off the wrong way. Sorry about that. I only chose to quit working cause I have a roommate that is super intense about this pandemic and didn't wanna listen to his complaining each time I went out. In return though I told him to not expect my full rent. Which he agreed to. I totally don't judge others for working though and I guess you thought I was? I wasn't. Anyways hopefully we are on the same page now and you aren't mad at me anymore? I will prob just delete my comment since it upset you and be more careful on this forum about commenting?

For detailed reviews you can find those in the US on Daddys Reviews. Like mine: http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/aj_doyle_oc I don't know why RM doesn't offer detailed reviews though.

I'm not sure what I said that upset you!? I just said that I am doing well cause financially I was prepared. When I said I feel sorry for anyone that didn't prepare... I didn't mean pity. I just meant I'm glad that I'm not in that situation. I was basically saying I'm very lucky.... Wasn't a dig on you or anyone else. Just expressing that others are suffering and I am Not... I really don't understand how my sharing that I am not experiencing hard times upset you? I guess I worded what I said poorly so for that I apologize. I am thrifty though. Always plan for bad shit to happen. So that has worked out for me. And as for my RM ad I froze mine. Anyways sorry you are having difficulty and that my comment upset you. I think you misunderstood or took what I was saying the wrong way. I'm regretting coming into the forum last night :-(

yeah except no dumbbells are available. It's a joke them reopening sporting goods stores! They can stay closed as far as I care cause there are no dumbbells to be found cause ebay buyers hoarded them so they could sell them 100x what they bought them for :-(

I don't listen to anything Gavin says. One week he says it spreads in the gym (Not True) and then he is attacking nail salons. I don't wanna respond to that question any further though as I don't wanna risk having what I said used against me. LOL. Or upsetting anyone by sharing my personal opinions about Gavin any further.

Yeah I have wondered that myself. I still get requests though, so I think they will hire again. Up till now I've been declining to take appointments though. I don't want anyone accusing me of not honoring the shut down and going off on me.

I can't say. Sorry. They only see existing clients. After the Mayor of LA went and told people to start snitching on everyone they had to be really careful.

They prob "stopped kissing" as to not risk catching Rona and giving to you.... So it sounds like they are trying to still work but protect you... Me personally I quit working back in Feb. cause I didn't wanna deal with guys being pissed when I asked them if they had traveled recently and where!?

I applied. I pay taxes on my income, so I qualify as long as I filed correctly... Still waiting to find out. I always plan ahead for slow times, so even without possible govt money I've been pretty much set to weather this storm. I haven't depleted all of my cash yet and I have plenty of credit cards as backup... The ones that planned ahead for financial problems will weather the storm just fine....

I dont know about the others, but for me I froze my account for fear potential clients would try to shame me for having my profile active. Some people are going into Karen mode and being very judgmental if we advertise during this pandemic, so I just shut it down as I didn't want any DRAMA! Plus my roommate didn't want me working during the pandemic for fear I'd bring something home. He gives me a gift each week I don't work as incentive. This last week I got a massage gun as reward for not working. lol. So a escort freezing their account doesn't necessarily mean they caught Covid-19. They might just be respecting the shut down.... My state is suppose to open up in a week, so I am planning to unfreeze my ad in the upcoming days....

I climb my hill daily at least two times (2 miles). Sometimes 4x. My trainer sees me 2x a week at a private downlow underground location... It's like Fight Club but without the fighting. But I don't tell anyone about my secret DL location that I am able to train at with weights. Watch my calories. Also bought some basic workout equipment for my home workouts. Weights are hard to find, but I managed to find a few by driving to 6 different Walmarts the day the shutdown happened back in March. When I saw Gavin I jumped into my convertible and basically drove from town to town till I got a basic collection as I knew the weights were about to disappear.

I have no desire to do a cruise... Cruises aren't safe IMO. I would do a private trip with a client that has his own boat or yacht, but I'm not getting on a commercial cruise cause I don't feel they are safe...

I personally don't like it cause it's yet another place for me to check for messages. Makes extra work for me. I already have missed calls, texts, regular emails, regular RM emails...and now I need to be on top of IM messages on RM!? So No I don't like it. I will notice your text or regular email faster.... As i get those notifications immediately.... I do my best though to check all the platforms...

I say just ask. Keep in mind though you need to be a good cock sucker if you wanna make your guy cum? I use to think I couldn't cum from just oral, but then this guy went down on me once and I came within a few minutes. So IMO it's all about skill level.

I stopped taking massage and escort clients in February. I'm planning to resume May 15 when our state is suppose to open back up... I stopped mostly cause I didn't wanna be accused of not taking this pandemic seriously. But to be honest if our state extends it past the 15th (It's been two months come on guys) then I'm going to still resume taking clients....

I can't answer for other escorts but as for myself I've gone out of my way to find ways to work out in spite of gyms being closed. We are allowed to exercise in our neighborhoods, so I've used my hill that I live on top of to hike but doing 4 roundtrips a day that equals 4 miles a day. I managed to snag a few light weights before all the dumbbells disappeared. I also bought a bunch of work out bands to make up for the fact that larger weights are not able to be found for purchase. While you are prob right and alot of escorts might fall out of shape cause of the gyms closing...for some of us that really care about staying in shape we have been thinking outside of the Box to make sure we stay in shape.

LOL. Correct! They only look at my pics! So yes I still have to field those Questions. :-( It makes our life alot harder than it needs to be though. Whenever someone messages me though and says they checked out my website they found on my ad and doesn't ask me my rates (cause they saw them on my website by clicking the link) I'm immediately impressed and extra excited to meet them!! Like it legit makes me Hard as Fuck when a guy mentions they read my ad and liked my website vs a guy that just looks at my pis.

Trump passed a law that said sites could be held resp for trafficking so all sites including RM got nervous and decided to drop the "rate" info for fear of being fined. The law he passed says its to go after human trafficking, but it was really meant to go after escorts. That is why Craigslist ads are gone and why RM sites no longer mention rates, so they can claim ignorance if ever brought up in a suit by the govt. It's just as frustrating for us as it is you though. Cause of the new law it means we waste ALOT of time answering rate question. Most are bargain shopping so it was easier for us when our rates were listed and cheap clients could see that we were out of their price range and didn't message us. Now we have to respond to bargain shoppers all day long. :-(

That's ok. I have a regular client I've seen for 2 years that texted me and was concerned my account was frozen. So even though he saw me for 2 years he didn't think to hit the reply button. lol. I'm not on the client side though, so I could be wrong about the "reply" option being available? For me though even if clients are inconvenienced it was the right decision to freeze my account as I didn't want any past or future clients to worry that I was being unsafe and still trying to work.... Im not really fearful of catching it myself but about catching it and being asymptomatic and giving to someone else that can't fight it off.... Most escorts if they caught it prob would not have any symptoms as most of us work out regularly and stay very healthy... But not all of our clients would be as lucky. So I'm taking a break to make sure my regulars and any new clients are Safe.... Fortunately I have a bit saved up, so I can afford to take a Break...

Oh they greyed the contact option out? Didn't know that. Well if you have contacted them in the past...you can still email them by hitting "reply" to the last email you sent thru RM. If you have never messaged them before though...then sadly No you won't be able to contact them. If you have messaged them before though and hit reply to the last message...the escort will see your message.

CA is making us wait till April 28 to apply as self employed gig workers, but we will be getting back pay.

I froze my ad but I still get requests. I try to be nice but a few times I've Not and messaged back..."Did Gavin lift the stay at home order and Forget to Tell Me!??" LOL

I do 3 month checkups thru my insurance. On the other two months I go to a free testing clinic, so that I manage to get tested monthly. I don't have to pay for the ones I do at the free clinic, but I usually make a donation.

Some of us keep emergency funds on standby in case anything like this ever happens. I feel sorry for those that didn't :-(. It's a personal decision for you to decide on whether you want to do that!? I just know I would never ask my clients to do something like that. I'm actually turning clients away cause I have funds in my savings to get me thru these tough times... If you really like the guy though and trust him...it's your money. You should do what makes you feel comfortable....

I don't like the RM messenger app cause it's yet one more app to add to my phone and fill up my memory. I prefer clients either text me directly or just email me. I will respond to RM messenger, but I don't always notice it as fast as I notice a text... As for the negative comments about guys that use google voice!? I have a google voice number cause it's more convenient and discreet. It's convenient cause I will get an email notification in case I don't notice the text. And it's discreet cause guys won't be able to google my number and get my home address with my google number like they could a regular number. I do have to sometimes turn down clients (some people are crazy you know) and I'd hate to think I end up getting stalked at my home by someone I decided I didn't feel comfortable meeting!?