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Could I have a PM for details as well? Really haven't touched any men since March.......

I am taking it kinda slow recently. But we have been talking about his travel plans, life etc. Something out of work. I think it would be weird to just ask him out for lunch out of blue. He is kinda busy at work and it's kinda hard to make a lot of conversation with him. Sometimes I don't think he even has lunch at all. I don't think I would mention the grindr thing to him. Too be honest, I am very likely not his type. My goal now is to be friend with him, hang out after work and hopefully he can introduce some hot gay guys to me

I did not leave any message or taps in Grindr to him at all. He would know there are other gay coworkers in the office but probably not me. I think a lot of people mentioned it in this thread that people would know the "unseen things" in the office that I am probably gay. But I don't think people would know that pictureless profile is me.

But I have a pictureless grindr profile. I don't think he saw me.

I hope that this is true and it would just make me feel better. I don't want anyone surprisingly finds out I am gay and they make it really weird about it.

I really appreciate everyone provides some many ideas and suggestions. I agree with @David1024 's idea that I should be friend with him first and see where it will take me. It doesn't have to become romantic. We have been talking about some neighborhoods he likes in the city, TV shows etc. I just wanna make more conversation with him first since he usually is very busy at work. He has a lot of meetings everyday and he stays late a lot. I agree that if I keep myself in the closet, I would miss out a lot of chances because maybe coworkers want to introduce someone for me and it is better to show the true self and it should make life easier not just at work. I guess I would ask him if he recommends any gay bars/things in the city to give him some hint. He seems really open to talk about LGBT stuff. I will see what is his reaction once he hears about this. Really appreciate everyone's help!!!

You guys don't have to discuss whether I should find another job if I don't feel comfortable coming out in the office. It took me more than 6 months to find this job and I love what I am doing. I think that people in the office is really open and respectful to LGBT. Just I am not sure how and when to come out because I am still kinda struggling in telling all of my friends and families. Not because I feel uncomfortable in the office environment.

We talked about it in at the office that he plays hockey and he plays it in some local league. I am not interested to join him for hockey but I don't mind go and watch a hockey game that he plays or watch it with him. After I read all the replies, I don't think I will tell him out of blue that I am gay. I will start with friends and hang out first and see how it goes. If I could get more gay friends from him, that's awesome. Doesn't have to date him or have sex with him eventually. I think that is more like my realistic goal.

I WANNA HEAR IT!!! Just say it man. I don't think anyone in the company knows that I am gay. But most people know he is gay and I am not sure if I tell him I am gay, he could spread the words and it might make me embarrassed.

I just moved to a new city for my new job. I have been working there for about 4 months. One of my coworkers sits near me is REALLY CUTE. He plays hockey but he is not over strong but lean. Personally I think he is easy to talk to. We have been having some small coffee chats at the office and he has been recommending TV shows or movie he likes. I just found out he is gay because I saw his Grindr profile when I was at my home. We were only 2000 feet away. His relationship status is single in grindr. I know that we live in different neighborhoods so he probably was hooking up with someone near me. So now I am not sure if I should talk him that I am gay and I kinda like him. I am afraid that if I tell him I have a crush on him but he doesn't like me, it would become awkward. Even if he likes me, it would be inappropriate with have sex or date my coworker. What's more, I wanna make some gay friends and get into the gay circles in this new city. He could be a good entry point instead of just hooking up with random guys in grindr. Could anyone provide me some suggestions if I want to tell him or ask him out, what should I say? or how to avoid awkwardness if he doesn't like me at all?

Hi looks really nice and ripped!!! I have tried contacted him last time I was in NYC. I booked him before I arrive but on the day we are supposed to meet, he never reply me with his address. But the day after he text me back saying that he lost his phone the day before and very sorry about it. Maybe next time I go back to NYC and I will try him and let everyone knows.

I really wanna try a daddy like him. However his profile is expired and I don't think he lives in US so it is a bit hard to reach out to him. Sad

I am going to San Francisco in July. I am vers bottom. I prefer hunks, muscular. Chest hair and foreskin is big plus!!!! I really like guys like Tomas brand https://rentmen.eu/TomasBxxx or Tayler Saint or Adrainn https://rentmen.eu/Adriaann But they are not in San Francisco..... Really appreciate any recommendations!!!

Oh he is so hot. If anyone could post their experience with Adrian, I would really appreciate it.

I like him because he is very professional. I have met him twice for massage before. Once in Boston and anther time in Vages. He is REALLY good at massage!!! I hav shoulder pain occasionally and his massage helps relief. He has a strong body with some hair, but still his skin is very smooth at the same time.(Yeah! He allows mutual touch). I like to get jerk off at the end of massage but no sex. He would ask politely whether you want “relief” or not. His warm hands just know how to do it. But he seems kinda emotionally detach from customers. He never gets hard not matter how I touch his dick. If you want a good massage, go try him! If you also want a “relief”, go ahead as well.