LJNYC83

I made this joke to a friend recently too. Told him I was going to start offering the “Three Years In Boyfriend Experience” that involves no sex but two chore related arguments and an hour of figuring out what to order for dinner. But I don’t think it would be a best seller...

I had a client recently who wanted to see me enough to offer to cover my airfare but didn’t want an overnight, so he understood I’d get my own hotel (that I paid for) and see other clients. That was pretty cool. But all discussed beforehand.

That’s why I asked when he last heard. If it had been a day, I think you leave it alone because maybe the situation hasn’t sorted itself out yet. If it’s been a week or two, a follow up check in text is totally valid.

How long has it been since you last heard from him?

I don’t believe so. I know at least one person who has me on their buddy list (he’s shown me his list) but I don’t recall ever getting a notification that I had been added. I think it’s similar to “favoriting” someone on Grindr.

I haven’t been since 2010 but I love the festival so much! So many great films!

I love advanced bookings and I don’t really have a time that’s too advanced, if the person will follow through. Someone who is a regular that I’ve built trust with could book me months in advance and I’d trust that it will happen (unless something life related comes up).

I just spent two days with a wonderful client, first time booking. I took the advice from this thread. At one point I excused myself for a phone call, and the rest of the time I only looked at my phone and answered personal texts when he was using his phone. It went great and he’s already booked me for another two days next month, this time out of town!

Sometimes it’s obvious, is it not? Like if you quote your rate when asked and suddenly never hear from the person again, it’s easy to assume they didn’t want to pay that much (either for you or in general). If you normally get that rate, then this was just about the client and shouldn’t change how you do business. If you regularly get ghosted after quoting your rate, then it’s probably a good idea to consider lowering your rate.

There’s still a number of them around my office in Times Square. Would be surprising to see them shut down honestly.

If you ever want someone to tail him, let me know! Wouldn’t be the strangest thing I’ve dver done on my lunch break in midtown.

Sure! https://daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/new_york/lj_nyc

I agree with this completely. Before I started on RM, I had met a guy who would give me $350 once a week to spend a whole night with him. It started out nicely, but after a few weeks it became a bad scene and was starting to really get to me mentally and emotionally. I had to cut him off. Blocked his number and deleted his contact. I miss the guaranteed $350 every week, but my mental health is worth more.

Yeah, you can return shoes when they’re too tight...

I always get excited by these things! As FrankR pointed out to me this morning, I received my first review on Daddy’s site yesterday! I text the person who posted it to thank then this morning. I’m always quite humbled to receive passing grades at this, haha. Anyway, just wanted to share my joy!

Thank you guys! I’ve decided to take it for sure. I’m excited, it’s not an overnight but it’s my first specifically working trip! Should be a fun one night getaway!

So, fellow escorts, let’s say you were thinking of visiting another city (not definitely, just thinking). How would you gage interest in the area in terms of getting hired? I ask because someone has offered to help fly me out to San Franscisco (I’m in NYC) but he just wants a regular hour appointment (or at least won’t want an overnight). I’m considering it, but I’d be more likely to go if I could book another appointment or two at least. That way I go for one night and come home with a decent amount instead of just going for a one hour appointment. I love San Fran, but I don’t need a weekend getaway per se. But a working trip I am certainly all for. I just don’t know how to gage interest. Especially in a city like San Fran that’s as busy as NYC. What advice would you guys give?

$3,000? It definitely sounds like his loss.

I shaved my beard recently but I’m also half Sicilian so I can grow in some heavy stubble in about two days. So I am to please all!

If monogamy was part of the deal, I’d say no too. I don’t even date guys who want monogamy, I certainly wouldn’t agree to a sugar daddy relationship with someone who wanted that. I could agree to not see other clients though. Dedicate that time to him. This is my side gig, so I don’t really worry about the money stability. I do this for extra cash to help enjoy life more and pay off some debts from my younger years (student loans are a bitch). So that’s why I say if a SD was willing to give me a reasonable amount every month to help with that, I’d be happy to go for that arrangement.

Husband no, sugar baby yes. Absolutely. Basically the guy would just have to treat me well, give me what I need financially (which actually isn’t a lot) and I’d hope we have dome sexual chemistry.

Oh I know, that wasn’t meant to be about you at all. I’ve been told by clients that they get the Uber request a lot and it just surprises me.

Maybe I’m crazy, but I would never ask for an Uber to somewhere that I could easily and cheaply reach via public transportation. Newark is super easy to get to. I’ve traveled to other parts of NJ too. It’s mostly easy! Maybe it’s just the Brooklyn born and raised kid in me, but I’d rather use the trains and buses. Have Metrocard, Will Travel.

Agreed completely. As I’ve saud before, I’ve been booked literally just to spar with some guys because they’re into the boxing thing. No sex at all. It’s all good.

As long as they aren’t blaming me, I wouldn’t say anything and would hope the client enjoyed themselves either way. I was in a situation like that once that went for hours and the guy (who was drunk and high) blamed me. That was awful.