LJNYC83

I made this joke to a friend recently too. Told him I was going to start offering the “Three Years In Boyfriend Experience” that involves no sex but two chore related arguments and an hour of figuring out what to order for dinner. But I don’t think it would be a best seller...

I had a client recently who wanted to see me enough to offer to cover my airfare but didn’t want an overnight, so he understood I’d get my own hotel (that I paid for) and see other clients. That was pretty cool. But all discussed beforehand.

That’s why I asked when he last heard. If it had been a day, I think you leave it alone because maybe the situation hasn’t sorted itself out yet. If it’s been a week or two, a follow up check in text is totally valid.

How long has it been since you last heard from him?

I don’t believe so. I know at least one person who has me on their buddy list (he’s shown me his list) but I don’t recall ever getting a notification that I had been added. I think it’s similar to “favoriting” someone on Grindr.

I haven’t been since 2010 but I love the festival so much! So many great films!

I love advanced bookings and I don’t really have a time that’s too advanced, if the person will follow through. Someone who is a regular that I’ve built trust with could book me months in advance and I’d trust that it will happen (unless something life related comes up).

I just spent two days with a wonderful client, first time booking. I took the advice from this thread. At one point I excused myself for a phone call, and the rest of the time I only looked at my phone and answered personal texts when he was using his phone. It went great and he’s already booked me for another two days next month, this time out of town!

Sometimes it’s obvious, is it not? Like if you quote your rate when asked and suddenly never hear from the person again, it’s easy to assume they didn’t want to pay that much (either for you or in general). If you normally get that rate, then this was just about the client and shouldn’t change how you do business. If you regularly get ghosted after quoting your rate, then it’s probably a good idea to consider lowering your rate.

There’s still a number of them around my office in Times Square. Would be surprising to see them shut down honestly.

If you ever want someone to tail him, let me know! Wouldn’t be the strangest thing I’ve dver done on my lunch break in midtown.

Sure! https://daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/new_york/lj_nyc

I agree with this completely. Before I started on RM, I had met a guy who would give me $350 once a week to spend a whole night with him. It started out nicely, but after a few weeks it became a bad scene and was starting to really get to me mentally and emotionally. I had to cut him off. Blocked his number and deleted his contact. I miss the guaranteed $350 every week, but my mental health is worth more.

Yeah, you can return shoes when they’re too tight...

I always get excited by these things! As FrankR pointed out to me this morning, I received my first review on Daddy’s site yesterday! I text the person who posted it to thank then this morning. I’m always quite humbled to receive passing grades at this, haha. Anyway, just wanted to share my joy!