How wold you confront your masseur about checking his phone while warming up the oil in the microwave? Or finishing 15 minutes early?
Every few weeks after seeing my masseur, I get the need to see him again, not because of the massage because it’s kind of mediocre, he doesn’t even massage the hands and feet, but because I enjoy the sensual he does. I’ve been seeing him for 4 years and haven’t asked him to really change anything during the session. Obviously I need him to change things if he’s not giving the full time and complete massage. Every time I leave, I regret paying for the massage because if the things I mentioned.
How do I ask him to not look at his phone during the session and go the full hour?