I am planning to meet a guy in a few weeks in NYC, but unfortunately neither of us can host. Turns out that Airbnbs are a lot cheaper than hotels in the area, so I booked one. The renter of the space asked for some basic information about the trip, and I told him I was coming to NYC alone to visit a friend. He responded by requesting that I confirm that I will be the only person staying "in total." I told him that my friend and I had made plans for him to come over and for us to "make dinner together." He said that would be fine.
I don't know, but something about his follow-up question raises a red flag for me. I think the reason he was asking is because his building has a 10 PM quiet-hours policy, and he doesn't want tenants making noise and drawing attention to themselves (he told me to tell anyone who asks that I am a friend who is staying at his place while he is away for the weekend). The question does seem a little strange/intrusive regardless, but it is his house, his rules.
Should I be at all concerned, or am I overreacting?