I have found the same where I live, except found him on Tinder instead of Grindr -- much more pleasant experience of saying what I was looking for without getting banned. He's also quite a bit younger than yours (but legal!), but otherwise is exact same - all boxes checked, he loves the idea of an older man (I'm 38), each meeting seems to be better than the last, and payment is same as you, although I find myself tipping him above $300 most every time, which is way more than I could probably get away with paying down here, but I like taking care of him . I honestly don't look for anyone else anymore, unless I'm traveling out of town and there's a pro that I've had my eye on. In 2020, that hasn't been happening