Just met him. It was a chance Grindr meeting. Turns out he lives right down the street - he offered a quick chance to meet, gratis, on his way to another appointment. I appreciated that.
Unfortunately, his style was not for me, and frankly I don't think we were a good fit for each other in any way. And the way he was talking a mile a minute, I'm wondering what he might have been on. To give him credit, I think he honestly tried to give me what I said I had been looking for (some deepthroat work), but it just didn't feel right to me, so I wasn't responding the way he would have liked. He came off a little too cocky, rather judgmental and a bit too swishy for me, and way too aggressive. Not a good experience. He might be a better fit for someone else. I feel bad, but that's how it went.