I want to answer your question, but am I might come off sounding conceited and shallow. I have been “approached” by men close to my age, but try as I might, I couldn’t go through with it. Most have been extremely overweight or otherwise unattractive to me. Doesn’t that make me a perfectly awful person? I think so, but I can’t help it. If I’m not physically and mentally atttracted to a guy, I might as well keep watching porn and making love to my fist.