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I genuinely want to know if I should douche before the date as a courtesy to the gentleman I'm planning to see as well as for my comfort. And when I initially contacted him, I did advise him that this would be my first time being penetrated by something larger than the small vibrator one woman used on me, ArVaGuy.

No, just curious about having sex with a man. I've become a lot more adventurous in recent years and being with a man is something I've wanted to try since I was a teenager. I made a few attempts through Craigslist but they either fell through or I lost my nerve. I had the chance to have a threesome with a gay couple, something I still kick myself for not hooking up. I live in the Toronto area and after Bruce Mcarthur, a serial killer who preyed on gay men he met online, was arrested and the details of the case came out, I decided that a male escort would be a lot safer than someone I met through CL or Grindr. And CL also shut down their Casual Encounters section. I've never bottomed before. I've engaged in anal play; rimjobs, prostate massages, had toys used on me a couple times, with women. Again, I'm going to see what happens after I go to see the escort. If I enjoy myself, I may go to see him again so having an anal douche would come in handy.

Again, this is likely going to be a one-time thing for me but if I decide to see the escort I'm planning to book a date with again, it might be handy to have.

Thanks! Not sure if I want to invest in something like this since this is going to be a one-time, cross it off my bucket list kind of thing.

So, I'm thinking of finally taking the plunge with an escort in the coming weeks/months and I'm looking to be topped. I'm just wondering if I should douche before the date or if I'll be fine if I just make sure to go to the bathroom a few hours before the date. And if douching is recommended, is there a good brand to use or should I just use soapy water? Thank you for your help, gents!

I first posted here about a year ago about having my first experience with a man an deciding to go with an escort since it seemed to be a lot less risky than hooking up with someone via Craigslist and Grindr. A few months ago, I came across Bill Mantri's ads on Leolist and he fit what I was looking for. A planned date ended up falling through due to a severe case of food poisoning and I'm planning a make-up date some time in the coming weeks/months. I was just wondering if any GTA users have seen Bill and can let me know what a date with him would be like. He seems nice from the e-mails we sent back and forth and he also did a lot to set my mind at ease. I just want to be sure since this will likely be a one-time only, cross it off my "bucket list" type of deal. Here's a link to his website; http://billmantrimassage.com/home/ Any input anyone can give would be appreciated. Thank you!