ChicagoGuy

Late post. I had a session with Andrew about a month ago. I did not really have as great of an experience as the many who have hired and reviewed him. He was a bit aloof to me from the beginning which kind of just made the first half of the experience a bit negative. I asked if he had a towel I could use, and he asked, “Why? What for? Do you want me to turn around as you are undressing?” Had to ask for sone water, and if I could use the bathroom before the session. He kind of made the first 3 minutes quite awkward. Massage was a bit too deep and painful at times for me. He did use his whole body briefly on me during the final 10 minutes and the hending. Was quite disappointed. I know I cleaned very well that time. LOL.

FWIW, I’ve only hired two porn actors out of the 10-12 escorts I have hired. Everyone has equal shot at making it in the industry I think. Other escorts’ ability to build beneficial relationships is what sets them apart and gives them longevity.

Spot on! Oh he is very well reviewed actually. And yes being upfront is much appreciated. Hence the question about how else rejections are expressed so as not to spend too much time with the back and forth.

That’s why i said i ended up saying he’s just not that into you as a client because the thoughts before that seem untrue. Just asking how others refuse clients so I would get the hint next time without going through such thoughts.

So this happened just now. I contacted an escort who will be visiting from Canada. Responded promptly to my inquiry on location and rate. He then asked me what I am into and for a bit of a description of myself. So I mentioned my likes, which are very simple, vanilla stuff like kissing, oral fun, erotic massages, etc. I also mentioned I prefer to bottom. And to describe myself a little, I mentioned the usual: my ethnicity, age, body type and height. A few seconds later this is the text I got: “To be honest I already have a weekend of bottoms, looking for tops at the moment.” I hate to say it but the word ‘racist’ kind of crossed my mind several times. Also, bigot, ageist and ‘a**hole. LOL! Eventually I settled for ‘The dang provider is just not that into you, man!’… Did I get that correctly? Or was he just picky? He charges $300 an hour and does mention versatile in his RM ad. Isn’t $300 just the same whether it came from a top or bottom? I have never heard of a versatile provider saying what he did. Not really interested in the reasons why because everyone is prejudiced in some ways whether we admit it, even in providing this type of service. Just want to know from y’all what lines you give to prospect clients to say ‘not interested’ based on the initial text message exchange.

From here on out yes. But mind you I did fall in love with an escort. And looking back it was quite ignorant of me to believe that it was being reciprocated. May happen both ways but more often it’s the client who ends up developing real feelings.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

Hi. Has anyone hired HeavenlyHands from New York? He’s coming to Chicago. https://rentmasseur.com/Heavenlyhands

Has anyone hired this one? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36570/

Before doing this, just remember what you are doing this for. It’s for fun right? He has something you want and you have something he wants. Do not get too emotionally involved.

Definitely this. Not even for repeat meetups. Never.

My first ever hire did not like Asians. It was very evident from the time we setting up the meeting. In fact, in hindsight, he seemed to try to cancel it as I was parking the car. But that being my first, I went for it, and totally regretted it. Hygiene goes for both client and escort. Sad to say, even some of the best rated and best looking escorts I have hired had some odor situation. I immediately stop communicating with escorts when they ask for pictures or ask for more descriptions or stats. Not because I have insecurities but because I know I am a good prospect who will pay the agreed amount for services, and I don't have to prove anything more than what I divulge during pre-meeting communications. And true that! Initial conversations and exchanges should build raapport. It is that connection, or lack thereof, that could make such reqiests a non-dealbreaker.

Have experienced this and wouldn’t want to do it again. At least not with an escort. In fact, it was the escort who proposed this to me. Everything was clear from the get go. I agreed, and he left the biz immediately. But then again, escorts have ambition too. When too much of it gets in the way, their go-to solution is the best and easiest (to them) thing to do. By the time, you’ve invested yourself heavily into that sort of ‘relationship’ that you thought was real then you lose it all. Sad to say, even if you offered, there will always be a reason for an escort to keep going back. It’s what they do, it’s who they are.