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Rudy honestly living the life i live i have a few gay acquaintances but i have seen alot of anecdotal evidence both in real life and virtually to support my claim. Of course no group is 100 percent anything but there is enough ppl in the community to make it shameful. I am not saying people should be forced to like what they dont like. For examplei i rarely find asian men attractive but its not because of their race its simply because asian culture rarely prizes much outside of education so you rarely see asian guys at least stateside with well developed physiques. However when i do i am not only impressed but i am often more intrigued than any other race. On the flip side you have guys who will say i dont like black men even if they are looking at adonises like ll cool j, david mcintosh, bolo, etc etc. That to me shows that there is prejudiced so entrenched into their brain that it is almost involuntary so they think it is preference. Men who like men should like masculinity period.!!!!!!!!!

That is unforgiveable. I have often found gay men can be some of the most mean spirited ppl to walk the face of the earth. I have often felt many fought hard for the equal right to be discriminatory against those they deem undesireable while whining about being victimized. Anyone who puts whst they dont want in an ad is going out of their way to be cruel. Simply state your preference and ignore whoever doesnt fit.

I grew up in nyc. Where there is a large dominican and puerto rican population. The majority of them are partially of african descent with Mediterranean and amerindian extraction. I have seen some spellbinding combinations. I have seen some that look straight up white with some dominicans looking 100 percent african.

I am always shocked to see how unappreciated black men are amongst many in the gay community. Many gay men seem to be proudly prejudice. Whites only just rolls of their tongue like butter on a bread knife. For ppl who appreciate masculinity black mens bodies are art. Has anyone ever notice the shape of some of the nfl linebackers or running backs? Unreal. How about the exoticness of afro latino men like those from cuba dominincan republic puerto rico or brazil? Has anyone ever been to a basketball court in the city where young black guys are out n about shirtless? You will see 12 packs and muscle definition on men that dont work out. I have always loved the waist to butt ratio and the wide shoulders narrow ribcage and arched spine that gives the bubble ass look and of course the many other blessings i wont go into. How come its not celebrated more?

No fuckin way

Ken mma fighter late 20s 6' 220. Straight blue collar guy. Hasnt even really started seeing ppl but just saw a professor i knew from mit who cant stop raving.

If you are more vqnilla try big connor

On a sidenote why are ppl in here whining? If topic doesnt interest you find one that does or create one you like. I would never go into a post to question why someone is talking about it. Imagine the amount of time you would need in your day to go around policing threads ad as unpaid moderator. You hqve threads like " shit comes out when fucking a bottom" or "why wont you come in my ass?" You really think a dignified conversation about sociosexuality is underserving of the delis bandwith?

You obviously identify as bi and maybe you see it silly for anyone to look into the concept of self identification vs reality. Its a sore subject boring your ears in spite of the fact many ppl are chiming in and even private messaging me with words of approval.

Hitting too close to home?

Lol now that you pointed it out ill leave it as an innuendo instead of correcting the typo.

Hi Rudy. Your opinions are differing from the poster i was addressing. He seemed to imply that sexual orientation identity is solely based on how that person sees themselves or declares themselves. Everyone does not know the nuances you seem to think they do. The guys on polar opposites of spectrum may be discernible but the gray areas require much deeper analization. Someone who is about to spend 2k with someone they think is a navy seqseal l bqck from iraq doesnt want someone who bought a pair of camos at dicks sporting goods. This conversation is not one of relevance to you because you are not an upscale client if you were i promise it would.

Not impossible but much rarer than compared to str8 population. I know that point is controversial.

Once again i will always respect a well though out response as your was. However i think many, as you are, reqlly underestimate the amount of guys who are flat out lying and have no basis to make those claims. Over 50 percent of men posting in m4m sites now "str8" and when you add in those that are bi it may be about 75%. Those proportions dont line up with reality. I do believe there is an acceptable rqnge on the spectrum where different straight men can fall. Some men making claims fall no where within that acceptqble range. Gay men who seek out these men probably have the most detailed data to analyze. Interestingly enough many times men who seek out same sex contqct may still be well within the acceptable range. Thinl the 300 lb big bubba alpha dawg that bends over every pretty twink that wonders by his cell. These men very often only seek out females outside of prison and are able to compartmentalize their sexuality. See guys this topic never gets old it is always very relevqnt with alot to talk about.

I like your very detailed reply. However i would like to ask if my distinction between the two types didnt resonate with you?