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  1. I'm reading these stories and I suddenly remember I have my own story. A few years ago, I went with straight friends to spend a few days at an upscale Marriott resort in Orlando. We did this a number of times. My best friend (straight female) and I would always share a room to save on expenses. Her sister and husband would have an adjoining room. On this particular trip, I started chatting with a guy on Grindr and after a day or two, I was beginning to think I would never get an opportunity to meet. I couldn't get away without it being obvious. On the last day of our trip, they all decide to go downstairs and over-eat at the buffet. I wasn't hungry, so I stayed in our room. He was suddenly available to meet, so I gave him my room number and invited him over for a quickie while my friends ate dinner downstairs. I was scared to death they would return while he was in the middle of sucking me off. It would have been incredibly embarrassing if I was caught and I'm sure they would have been pissed. Don't get me wrong, they all know I'm gay and are OK with the concept. But they've never been faced with seeing me be actively gay. I managed to get him out of the room with a few minutes to spare. I still smile when I think about that close call. He was a hottie and inappropriately young for me (not illegal though).
  2. I'm really stunned by this. If I ask you for a location in the wrong way, you think I could be the next Jeffrey Dahmer? You're going to have to give up this info at some point unless you only do out calls. I hope I'm misunderstanding your meaning. I'm not offended, just surprised. I'll repeat what I said before: he's probably asking for a general location which is fair and should be provided. I get your safety concerns, so maybe you don't give up the specific location until as close to the appointment time as possible (like maybe an hour before) and only after final confirmation the appointment will happen and share all meeting info with a trusted friend. Otherwise, do only out calls. Sadly, this is an example of communication in the texting generation. When I encounter this with a potential provider, I just move on. I won't respond here anymore to keep the conversation on topic. My apologies for letting the conversation stray.
  3. Who can even afford the cereal? At my local grocery store, they sell a box of the plain Cheerios (no honey OR nut) for almost $9. Add $4 for a gallon of milk and that's some expensive meal.
  4. When I was on Grindr, I steered clear of guys in that age range as I always assumed they were lying about their age (who doesn't lie about at least one physical attribute on Grindr?). If one of them ever contacted me, I chatted back, but with visions of a Dateline TV crew in my head and kept it clean. Do they still do those stings? I wouldn't call this a repulsive topic if any actual activities are consensual or maybe a role-play scenario. If giving a gay virgin sexual experience is considered corrupting, then I'm guilty (although I was much younger and didn't think of myself as a daddy). If you're talking about using underhanded tactics to get someone to do something they don't want to do, then repulsive might well be the right word.
  5. Does your ad clearly state that email is a requirement, not a preference? If so, then the auto-reply becomes irrelevant except to those who choose not to read, or don't think you're serious. I use RM mainly on my laptop (for the larger pictures), so switching from RM messenger to text would annoy me since I would have to switch devices, but I know I'm not normal. If I know from the ad that texting is a requirement and that's not acceptable to me, I wouldn't make contact in the first place. Would I follow or ignore? Probably ignore and move on, but it really depends on my level of horniness and availability of other providers.
  6. Wow. Everyone stays somewhere, even if they're home. Perhaps this is someone who might not be comfortable supplying personal information, if the answer to the initial question is unsatisfactory. Perhaps that's why no intro and why he's using RM messaging. He's not asking for an address, but most likely a part of town. In a large metropolitan area, it matters to many of us and could be a deal killer. By getting it out of the way early, this is the opposite of a game player. I see this as someone who is asking a legitimate question and not getting an answer. As to the OP's question, if I took the time to reach out to a potential provider and got an auto-reply and nothing else, I would probably move on. To me, it says "I don't want to deal with you unless I have to."
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    I don't understand RM ads like this... the description is for non-sexual massage. There's no "I'm into" section. Too many "Ask me" responses. I'm not going to try to contact him, because I have no idea of what we'd do. Is this ambiguity intentional?
  8. I live within walking distance of an Aldi, a Trader Joe's and a Publix. Once I started going to Aldi, I stopped going to Trader Joe's all together and rarely go to Publix. It's mainly for the prices, but if the quality of products wasn't good, the price wouldn't matter to me. Recently, I saw a box of plain Cheerios at Publix for $7.79 (18oz). That price offended me so much I had to take a picture. The somewhat smaller box of the Aldi version (12oz) is $1.45. At Costco, I recently saw whole milk for 3.69, at Aldi it was 2.65. No one can beat Aldi on price. I've never seen more than one cashier on duty at a time, but they are extremely fast and can move the line quickly. Aldi products have extra large bar codes on all sides to make scanning more efficient. The quarter for a cart thing doesn't bother me because the reason they do it actually works. I've never seen a loose cart in the parking lot.
  9. I bought my lifetime senior pass at the entrance to Glacier National Park in June as we were entering the park (Going-to-the-sun Road is unbelievable). I just asked the guy at the gate and he said I could get it right there, so I did (only took a minute). I used it at Devil's Tower and Badlands National Park, but didn't need it at Mt Rushmore.
  10. Other than live sporting events, all of linear television (a.k.a. traditional broadcast television) is in decline across the board. Daytime is no exception. Days of Our Lives is no longer broadcast, it's been relegated to streaming on Peacock.... for now. No one watches TV like they used to. Few people are willing to tune in at a specific time to watch a show including the irritating commercials that pay for it.
  11. Susan Walters will always be "Mulva" to me (a Seinfeld reference, google "mulva" and you'll see her picture).
  12. I can highly recommend. PM for more.
  13. I'm sorry. I'm having a hard time getting past the first paragraph. You took a filthy stripper who had no clothes into Macy's? To me, this story sounds a little like a scene from Boogie Nights.
  14. I tried to make contact, but I didn't get a response when his ad showed he was in Atlanta. Next day his location shows NYC, so maybe I caught him on a travel day.
  15. I'm curious if anyone has actual experience with this guy. He's been on RM since Sept 2022, but I haven't seen any info here (name change?). He seems to travel between Atlanta and Orlando. My experience so far: Because our schedules wouldn't match up, I didn't make any contact until yesterday. After I sent my first text message, he answered that he was driving... "can call you in 20 or so"? I said sure. That 20 turned into 1 hour 45 minutes. He didn't call, but continued texting. Not a big deal so far. I told him I was looking for BFE, but no details and he didn't ask for any. At this point in the conversation, I wasn't about to go into explicit details about what I wanted unless he asked. He asked if anytime tomorrow (Sunday) would work and could I host. I said "tomorrow afternoon ok?" and he said "yessir". Then, I asked his rate for 2 hours and he responded "600 You picked the best". If I was reading between the lines, I would say that response was confident bordering on arrogant. This tells me he knows his rate is high ($300/hr, no discount for multiple hours), but I said ok. At this point, he ghosted me. No response from subsequent messages. It was an abrupt ending to the conversation. I would like feedback from the group: Has anyone had real interactions with this guy? Is this normal? I felt like we had confirmed our meeting, though some details were never discussed, only approximate time and I didn't have a chance to give my address since he ghosted me. With an agreement on approx. time and rate... should I consider this a confirmed meeting (not that it matters)? I realize I could have followed up again "Hey, are we still on?", but after no response from my last messages, I didn't see the point. I feel he should have to make some effort to get my money. Should I have pestered him at least one more time? I have no problem moving on, just would like to know what others think. I can't change his behavior, but I can change my own in future interactions with others. Thanks.
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