In my first 2-3 years at this hobby, I hired probably 30 guys and rarely twice. I was always on to the next shiny object, and I had a lot of hot fucks. Then I met Dan (interestingly not thru this site or RM), who has been my semi-regular since. Dan is a submissive bottom who calls me Sir (TBH this is more his thing than mine, but I roll with it). He's probably 35 now, and in great shape (triathlete). Every time we meet we mix it up and he (or I) bring something different to the table (sometimes planned, sometimes a surprise). I met Dan about 1 year before COVID and have been seeing him roughly monthly. To someone's previous point, there is value in someone who knows your likes, and who you have (and continue to develop) chemistry with. And, that you get to know a little about each other over time (while maintaining boundaries). I have hired a few other guys along the way, but it's now a rare exception.