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Never met with Bryan, and while he may be a great guy, he isn't someone I would be inclined to hire. To each his own. BUT the reason he blocked could be numerous. Using Grindr as an example, if I chat with someone a bit and find out we don't match, I have blocked them - no thin skin involved. I just don't want more time wasted by either party in the conversation.

One thing not discussed so far, is if you should send a message after the session? Throwback to the words of Brad Benton "It's always a business doing pleasure with you!" 😁

Multiple times I year I discover providers appear in West Virginia. When I contact to inquire, they state they are not escorting at the moment and just put their profile in the state of West Virginia as they will likely get little to no contacts. I really sort of hate that. Just put a note on the profile stating you are taking a break for a period of time with the date OR use the "COVID safe mode" feature. It is just laziness a a lack of caring about clients that you advertise somewhere you aren't, IMHO.

I may be the minority here, but I would for sure explore my options. Why - to help prevent this from happening to other people, and it may send a message within the area where he lives that this type of behavior will not be tolerated. If it had been rape vs. disease infection would folks say you should still be quiet, and deal with it? How about abuse - deal with that, or report it? Working for a University and getting yearly trainings on sexual assault, rape, bias, etc. this would actually fall under assault at a minimum where I live. I would also find it morally wrong for someone to intentionally misstate their status on any type of sexually transmitted disease. To not know one is one thing, but to completely lie is another. Yes, it is a very uncomfortable conversation, but that is part of being an adult, and taking responsibility and even more so in the line of work escorts do. I would still expect to know even if it was someone I am just a "buddy" with. I hope you can get some mental healing, as well as great treatment where you experience very little to no loss in the quality of life. This is always a fear of mine, as well as any other STD/STI (and even though vaccinated, I'm still cautious in regards to COVID). Wishing you the best.

I vote yes, and what's the link to the livestream? 😆

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50. The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following: The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it They work an opposite shift from their partner They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex They know I'm not looking to date them It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions. I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me. So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars. To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

I haven't seen anyone mention this, but I live 3 hours from the nearest city with any providers (I'm in West Virginia, and you are right to moan). There are times I have messaged an escort a few days to a week in advance, stating what I am interested in, why I'm asking early (I need to take time off work, book a hotel room, arrange a pet sitter, etc.), and for them to recommend a hotel or location that would be convenient for them to meet me. It is rare for me to get any decent answer, and what I do generally get is "contact me after you arrive, and a couple hours before you want to meet." Just like they want assurances that someone isn't sending them on a wild goose chase, I am looking for assurances that I have someone committed in advance before I make arrangements, pay the hotel, and drive the distance. And if I ask for someone to recommend a hotel that is close to them, and then they want money from transportation, then I feel something is wrong. If there wasn't a close option, then I wouldn't balk at paying them a little extra for transportation. Hiring is a treat for me. As a single person making under $35,000 a year, the $1,000 I'll invest just for that hour meeting is a big deal for me personally. I don't argue with someone's rate or try to get a discount, they know their market and their worth. It would just be nice if they would sometimes understand other people's situations and respond accordingly, just as they want others to understand why they are asking their rate and for uber/other expenses.

Adding Dylan Anderson to the list, along with Pierce Paris.

In my thoughts, even with an escort agency, it wouldn't always mean you would get the guy in the photo you requested. Maybe 15 years back I asked an agency about two different guys they had. I was informed that neither were still with them, but they offered someone else, who I was not interested in. It showed me they really didn't care about the customer, or they would have kept their list of guys current. I think it also inflates the price, as the agency will want a cut of the money. Rentmen, Friendboy, and other options seem to be working decently well in their current formats, as long as the client thinks with the head further from the ground than the one closer.

Would sex with Dean Winchester or Lucifer Morningstar be an option? I'd be down for either, or both if a threesome is an option. http://www.supernaturalwiki.com/images/f/fa/Lazarusrisingshirtless.jpg

I sort of want to experience some fun with a top (or a guy willing to top) who has a PA piercing. I have stumbled across Sabinboy, Tyler Roberts, and Jesse Santana. Are there others out there that I just haven't found yet? Needs to be North American based for affordability. If ya wanna judge me for this, go ahead. Not going to hurt my feelings any folks. Not ashamed of some sexuality here.

His real actual age is 32, so not far off enough to matter that much.

I lurk a lot, and don't hire often - maybe once every 2-3 years. I have in the past before discussing any services at all, I asked if the person who I am inquiring to is Law Enforcement, or working for/with Law Enforcement in any way. My understanding is that they have to disclose if you ask, and if they do not, it is entrapment. I'm thinking this is still a sound method, but anyone with more legal experience or understanding know?