Like 4 or 5 years ago I went to a couple events through Daddy Retreat including one run by the Bate Coach. As others have said he's like in his 30s (definitely younger than Aaron aka Dominus Eros), lean, reasonably hung. I think I actually liked the bate-focused event the Bate Coach ran better than the massage focused one Dominus Eros ran. As others implied, the focus and the crowd of attendees will go a long ways in determining how much you enjoy the session. I was in NYC a couple times last year but didn't attend anything at Daddy Retreat since the events I could have attended didn't appeal to me enough.