MrMattBig

Hello everyone! It touches my heart to see all the caring responses and glowing sentiments. For those that know me here and in person, if you recall i lost someone very close to me few years back, in fact the person responsible for opening my eyes up to this wonderful world of escorting. So this past year the holidays have hit me especially hard, and accompanied with other things as well. I kind of misplaced myself for a brief moment in time. But now I'm back and hoping to reconnect with old acquaintances and make new friends as well!

Does anyone know how someone would stumble across Hot.com? Just googling for escorts turns up mostly the main sites but no Hot.com in my search results. Truly curious how someone finds there way to it.

My friend in SF whose a trans girl is looking for a massage this weekend. Seeking sensual/erotic with legit skills.

Well $60 on $300 is 20%, I think it comes down to personal tipping habits, some 10% is their norm, others it's 50%. Even outside of industry norms (dining, nail salons, etc) some stick to their own habits. You do you regardless, I'll happily accept a larger tip from anyone ? Blank checks too!...well I digress now we are into findom territory

Answers to this question may vary. My point of view and opinion : any amount above the session rate is appreciated. Even better than tips are longer sessions in the future, regularly booked appointments, offers to meals or events, etc. If an amount is to be referenced, I would say 20-60$

Possibility of a Lakers v. Nets Finals matchup would be wild!

Me, I understand cold feet, changing your mind. I hire girls once or twice a year so I get it. What I don't understand is the self centered nature of communication or lack thereof nowadays. Like others have pointed out, it permeates other industries besides sex work. "How long you in town for" or "I'll get back to you" 99% if the time means this isn't happening from their end. I'll usually give cancelations a free pass as far as consideration for another booking. But when someone says they will follow up and doesn't, or when I ask if a certain time will work or ask what their availability is and get no response, if someone does that a second time it's usually a blacklist from me. Just communicate upfront, not that hard. I have someone in Boston who has hit me up at least a half dozen times inquires but an appointment doesn't materialize. But I would meet with them in a heartbeat if it ever does. Why? Because they have communicated upfront about their situation.

The way I understand the situation, is that because of Covid related transit schedules, under normal circumstances it would have been a few dollars normally to return via subway, or a ride under a monthly pass. Does it make sense to change pricing protocols because of pandemic-only era situations and costs? Perhaps. But when inquires already sometimes balk at at prices or try to haggle because of the pandemic, it's like @FrankR said there is no scenario to make both sides and everyone happy. Adding a surcharge to cover late night transport might turn that client away, either for the sticker cost, or for the mental frame of having to pay for the providers transportation as well as his service. Not to mention, many inquires may not be aware or realize there is limited public transportation ability so might view asking for uber fee as others have described.

Absolutely agree. With hotel, flight, transportation expenses related to escorting it comes out to the same as what I pay in rent or more annually, essentially meaning I pay for 2 apartments. And new inquires still balk at my sub $300 rate.?? Having a $300 rate would help lessen the impact of that overhead greatly, but I would never hear the end of it and decrease the prospect of new clients drastically.

ATL and other US metro areas might be affected by what's going on here in Vegas, Pandemic emergency declarations affecting ability to surge price and therefore affecting how many drivers are going to elect to drive and be available. Currently, if I can't get a ride from a friend back home from a late night outcall, i most likely won't accept the appointment, because I'll encounter the same experience of struggling to get a ride from ride share. So yes, time of day, and availability of public transport do matter (most services still have limited time schedules) @RJD . All this to say I'm one that takes public transportation everywhere unless for groceries, heavy luggage, or tight time schedule. However, I agree with @marylander1940 "If a client wants someone ASAP and it's late at night he should pay for the Uber or even better Ubering the guy to him." I have someone who periodically hits me up when I'm in Socal who wants an outcall but by public transportation is effectively 2.5 hours away. Even if I'm slow, it's just not possible to go to him and come back for the one incall I'll have later at my location or get to him within his window of availability, which is usually early or short notice. If someone wants short notice or ASAP outcall, which seems to be the majority of initial inquires at least, it should be the going gesture to offer to Uber/Lyft the provider there. Either way, local transportation is still Covid affected, by limited time schedules and ride share issues, so both clients and providers I would hope have more patience and flexibility during these times still.

Asking for you to call them an Uber from your account is not uncommon, as @harey pointed out could be their way to weed out flakes and have the client cover that overhead so they see more profit from the appointment fee. If someone asks you to send them money to cover the Uber, extremely high probability of being a scam.

Tone is everything. The need and desire to deter "un-client" contact is warranted and necessary. However I do agree with the sentiment here. "Do not waste my time" reads to me as someone who may be amateur, not serious about escorting, a flake/time waster themselves, picky, ala carte pricing, rough around the edges, or any combination of similar. Serious inquiries only reads and lands better.

Epic classic! Monday Gonzaga v. Baylor for all the marbles.

Epic classic! Monday Gonzaga v. Baylor for all the marbles.

Cute location names I feel are part of the flirtatious nature one need to have making money online with a sexual presense. That said, generic cute phrases annoy me. "Your dreams" "best in/at xyx" type of stuff. More creative the better, such as "the ether" "nudist colony in my bedroom, my house" "Down the rabbit hole" "the upsidedown" "on your discostick" "9 inches inside your hole"