In Joe's badly-in-need-of-updating
Twitter account he has a lot of pics with him and his partner so my guess is he is more gay currently :-) I thought he was retired as well, glad to hear it isn't an absolute.
Speaking of Mike Gaite, this is a scene I'd like to see happen:
http://www.queermenow.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/Joe-Parker-Gay-Porn-Star-Shirt-and-Jockstrap-Contest.jpg?1aac54