AndreFuture

Yeah, flakes are the bane of escorting, especially those that ghost with no explanation. I had a client not show up to our meeting place just yesterday afternoon. Guess he got cold feet, or his wife found out what he was doing I'm still learning how to detect the cold-feet types, but the few I've had the (mis)fortune of encountering usually are new to hiring, are very nervous-sounding in the phone, rather hurried to meet you ASAP (like "can I see you RIGHT NOW?"), and didn't really do their research about you, your rates, your specialities, etc. Of course, this doesn't get to the guys who pre-book a month in advance, only to flake 20 minutes before the appointment time.

I enjoy kissing and thus far, my clients have been pretty decent at it, too. For me, the #1 thing is fresh breath. Brush and floss your teeth, and wash your ass (dick, too, but you'd be surprised by how many forget the backside), and we'll have a great time

Funnily enough, I get contacted in waves usually around the same time each month. I'd say up to 50% of them are time wasters (including scams/phishing attempts, wanting to sext/phone sex, or otherwise are not not serious about booking). The other 50% are from people who show genuine interest and aren't trying to jerk off through our communication, though they may not complete a booking.

Perfect. Funds are a bit tight now, but I hope to donate more (and more often) when business picks up. Maybe I'll be able to donate enough to be let into the Cabana

I use a tracfone for work and try to get people to use Signal or some other secure messaging service.

Yes to sugar baby; maybe to husband; and no to the need for sexual attraction. I'd have to probe why he wanted monogamy (possible control issues/jealousy/etc. there), but it wouldn't be a deal breaker. The amount would need to be significantly more than what I could possibly earn on my own (through my conventional profession or this), so the chance of this realistically happening are slim. I used to joke about marrying a very rich, estranged, childless octogenarian, but I enjoy my freedom too much and I'm not sure I could stomach the institution of marriage IRL.

I also sent a donation via the cash app with the note: "Forum support." I've never used the Cash app before, so please let me know if it went through.

Any developments in accepting bitcoin payments?

It's always weirded me out, and I don't let people use it to refer to me. That said, it's not a hill I'm willing to die on as far as others using it generally.

I saw my first client during the winter holiday season of 2015, so almost 3 years now. Feels like just yesterday...

Yes, they're trash because they encourage violent, useless ideologies like: Additionally, PETA is comfortable using racism and sexism to promote their agenda, and I'm not down with that. I believe in thoughtful, holistic, and intersectional advocacy, not "eye for an eye" or "If you cant' beat em, join em" apporaches. I don't use my animal advocacy as a cover for some hidden loathing for humans. I want peace for all animals, and humans, believe it or not, are animals, too. Anyway, this whole thread is just meatheads bashing on plant-based folks, and I'd rather not get dragged back into this through a quote. Happy to continue the conversation through PM. Thanks.

I know I was hoping I could take part in any extended birthday celebrations with you, too. Maybe next year.

Unfortunately, I won't be able to make it after all.

I have not, but that's because I use the street address when asked for a home/physical address. You usually get a street address equivallent of your PO Box: e.g., for PO Box #123 located in a Post Office on 1000 Happystreet, San Francisco, CA, the street address would be 1000 Happystreet, Unit #123, San Francisco, CA 94000

I suppose it's merely a notion for guys who haven't experienced it yet