The old saying about the gut being smarter than EITHER head seems to be in play also. I'm with you Caliguy - my original question was really more about what one person is ok with could be illegal or out of societal norms quickly. Another song lyric comes to mind also "Hey! Leave them kids alone"
Late to the party here, but for me and my tastes, I have a hard time getting past his eyes and biceps. The beard/no beard and chest smooth/hairy conversation doesn't make the radar for me with that face and those arms ...
I've always felt there is a difference between LOVING something or someone and BEING IN LOVE with something or someone. Subtle difference maybe, but a difference none the less.