bimbosavant

Genius.

This isn't a shameless plug just that I never know which forum to post anything in on this site. I discovered a really great (alternative rock) song about male prostitution today and I wrote about it in my blog. The song is entitled "Can't get out of what I'm into" and it takes a very raw and witty look into the craft. See Blog Post Here: www.grasslessgreen.blogspot.com Have a nice weekend!

I don't remember being so treacherous in my youth - in fact I remember looking up to my elders. The world is devolving. What a pity. I've been called old or "not THAT old" on occasion and I'm 37. I don't take it personally, though entitlement disgusts me more than anything else.

Google: Animals masturbating. (sorry, you asked)

1. Something about watching a guy fucking while standing up and getting that underneath shot where you can see both holes and legs. I'm a leg guy. 2. I particularly don't enjoy watching gratuitous blow job scenes unless they look really into it - though any more than 2 minutes is way too much for me. 3. I was inspired to use a speculum. I find it so very interesting to see what everyone writes here - I always say, "there's something for everyone". It's great to see what relates to reality versus fantasy. I have this pastime where I go on myvidster and see how people organize their porn. It's really fascinating. For me - I do love a lot of things out of reach, though I would probably try anything at least once, especially if I know it's something the other guy would like. But I truly get off on porn that relates to my own desires: anything with hairy guys in it, surprise flip fucking (when the top has a great ass and the bottom has a great dick and they trick you into thinking that one will bottom before the other), anything with voyeurism or a peeping tom, sex in slings (drives me absolutely insane), participatory gang bangs (with more than one bottom).

Life is a precious thing.

It is hot - I highly recommend it

Watching is one thing, voyeurism is another. It includes some pretty definitive psychosexual issues that are not privy to everyone, on the same token as other fetishes i.e. Water Sports, Adult Baby, Zoophilia et al.

From voyeur to voyeur - I completely understand your trepidation. It is hard for some to understand this fetish and many times I find myself in a conundrum or feeling a bit scared to watch (JUST WATCH, ONLY WATCH) because it can come off as creepy or inexplicable to others. Yes, I like group sex, yes I enjoy foursomes (threesomes not so much - someone ALWAYS gets left out, better to stick with even numbers), but more than the actual act itself, I like to sit back and enjoy two or more people getting it on. The good news is, there are a world of exhibitionists out there and they love to be watched and actually get off on it just as much as you (we) get off on watching them watching us watching them get off. Sex parties are hard. There are archetypes that crowd the place and most people like to do it in darker areas which is the Achilles Heel for voyeurs (see also: dark rooms, saunas, steam rooms, glory holes et al). Some people are shy (read: married) and don't know exactly how things work. Some people may take a visual cue as a come-on, and then you're stuck in that awkward place of trying to be polite about telling them you don't want to have sex with them at a sex party. Sometimes I'll play the rabbit in that I'll get something started and duck out to the side and encourage them to keep going. It's a chore but worth it. If you can afford it - ask a professional to help. Perhaps they can bring in an assistant for a nominal fee. There are other methods as well - inquire within.

Paddles is still very much in business and is usually "rented out" for different parties/hosts. There are a variety of events that take place there.

We all know what's out there - and sometimes we inadvertently stumble upon something. I wouldn't mention it directly, but if it comes up in conversation he should be cool with it if you admit the truth. Privacy isn't so easy these days, but there are measures that can be taken to avoid these type of situation.

13 is adorable.

My reference is a bit twofold in that the amount of information the escort puts out can hinder or help a client decide. There are a lot of facets to selling oneself that runs the gamut of many marketing tactics. Some people under certain circumstances are a bit wary of divulging a lot of information and/or are much better in the flesh. Others are very meticulous and downright vile (in a good way) in proposing what they have to offer and are great at articulating that and presenting visual aides. Having lived in Europe where nothing is illegal, comparing these things to how they are demonstrated here in America is quite fascinating.

There is a thin, wavering line between discretion and full disclosure - but the bottom one is: to each his own. xoxoXXX -Andre