ChrisWydeman

Each client has their own story and I’ve had many with unique backgrounds influence my tastes over the years. I learned how to play poker from one of my clients and it’s become something that I love. The client used to hire me and we would meet at a local bath house and get the biggest room available. We would play strip poker until we were both naked and who ever won got to top 😉 As I have transitioned out of escorting and into a different career I have a special appreciation for the experiences clients have shown me, be it trying new food, an activity, or something new in the sack. I think the thing I miss most about escorting were the fun adventures I would take with clients were I got to try something new.

I think one of the super powers of escorts and folks that work in adult entertainment is experience navigating complex emotional dynamics this being one possible example. If there is anything an escort should be good at its rapport building. As for boundary violations I wonder what is the purpose of reaching out? Is it for help because they feel that provider has a unique insight they might have or is there some underlying maladaptive behavior thats causing a client to transgress boundaries and self sabotage? This is a complex topic, your client may not be aware going into therapy that their provider has a background in adult entertainment and later finds out through porn hub. The client may be aware going into their first session that their therapist worked in adult entertainment. What I was getting at with my initial post how as prospective clients of therapist that might work in adult entertainment how folks feel about that past. For the sake of this discussion let's assume the therapist is competent and has the skills to navigate these situations.

What I am getting at is, if lets say Rocco Steel became a therapist would knowing he had done sex work effect your comfortably in seeing him a therapy client?

Over the years I have seen many escorts retire and pursue other passions. It got me wondering, if you knew someone had worked in adult entertainment would that effect how you view them in other professions? What are your thoughts on therapists that may have escorted or done porn?

I earned a masters from one of the top 10 universities in the country and my grammar and spelling isn't the best. If you have a diminished view of someones intelligence because they haven't composed a sentence to your grammatical standards it might behoove you to revaluate views. He messed up a little on his ad, big deal, I know many bright escorts who have had grammatical errors on their ad. While grammatical issues may grab your attention, eagerness to diminish someone else grabs mine. Rather than spend your time knitting's picking someone maybe you could do something more productive?

If you have a preference on lube, express it, any experienced fister should have J lube or crisco on hand. I am preferable to K lube but I broke my last blender mixing up a batch. Make sure your hole is clean. Make sure your escorts nails are filed and clipped, run them along your lips to feel for any jagged edges, its the same soft tissue and you will be able to tell right away if there is anything that needs to be touched up. Fiber and probiotics are always good for any bottoming prep but especially for fisting. I always found cleaning out with a toy to be super helpful. If anyone has any questions about FF please feel free to private message me. One more tip if your an experienced bottom find a VERY experienced top preferably with small to medium hands and if your an inexperienced top find a VERY experienced bottom.

Even if you don't bottom on a regular basis I highly recommend using a shower shot. Fleet enemas have harsh laxatives that can be irritating to your rectum. If you absolutely have to use a fleet empty the contents and put room temperature water in it. If you can't hook up a shower shot then buying a reusable bulb is the best option. I hate to say it but if you want to get fucked like a porn star then your gonna have do a porn star clean out or your chancing being a shitty kitty.

If you have any intention of putting your dick in there wouldn't you want people to know how to clean out? If your just engaging in rimming hibiclense is perfect

So here are some tricks that I have developed for bottoming and if your feint of heart stop reading now. 1. Three serving sizes of metamucil before bed will keep your clean outs down to 15 minutes or less. 2. Don't use too much water or you may dislodge something. Less is more. 3. Using a toy to clean out is VERY helpful. I thickly coat mine with J lube in the shower and insert all 16 inches of it. Ride it for a few minutes and if its clean your probably good to go. 4. After I am done cleaning out I use Hebicleanse which is fantastic for getting rid of any unpleasant smells. 5. If your not bottoming on a regular basis and you want some extra insurance take two imodium an hour before you clean out. 6. If you don't know how to clean out ask your escort or if you need to use their facilities do so. Any escort worth their weight should have a shower shot in their apartment if not for their clients than themselves. Folks bottoming is WORK. You have to put the effort in or your playdate may go very badly. Find out what YOU can eat that digests well and eat that one day before your play date. If you have greasy food the day before your shooting yourself in the foot. If you are not willing to put the work into clean out please spare conventional escorts an find one that flags brown so fun can be had for all parties. A friend of mine said, "when you play with pigs sometimes you get a little muddy". Shit happens but YOU can do your part as a bottom to make sure that doesn't happen. If anyone has any questions please PM Chris

I would have to say Weekend was one of my favorites. Also Gay Sex In The 70's was a lot of fun to watch

There is a station on pandora called "chill out" and it makes for some really intense passionate sex. Blackmill is a great option too I love everything by them.

Try a local street pharmacist. You can usually find them at a body building gym ;-)

How did he milk you? By fucking you? Using a finger? If your looking for a consistent orgasm without the need of a hard dick I highly recommend investing in a prostate toy. I think its something you could share with most escorts as long as you tell them how you want to be pleasured.

Have you tried anal orgasm? I find them to be just as satisfying. Despite what you may see in porn and hear on this thread a hard dick isn't required for a good time

Escorts label themselves more often than not as a marketing tool. I have many clients fish to see if I am bisexual because some how it makes it hotter for them. I try not to give it to much thought because it makes my head hurt