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I had a gay uncle. He wasn't my favorite. He would however TRY to be my favorite. Would always buy me expensive gifts. But I preferred his brother who would take me out to DO things. I enjoyed that sort of attention more than just getting "stuff".

That has often been my experience of homophobic men. Clearly trying to cover up a same-sex attraction that makes them uncomfortable.

Well...no. Since I was BORN bisexual I needed to CHOOSE a "lifestyle". I didn't turn gay when I was dating men. I didn't turn straight when I married my wife.

He's adorable and seems sweet based on my conversations. But yeah...I'm not paying $500 for a b.j.

To me this makes more sense. I think people go out of their way with the whole "born this way" narrative. Sexuality is more likely a combination of nature/nurture. You see over and over when men have NO access to women, they figure it out and their latent homosexuality appears. I think varying degrees of social influence is what tips the scale. It seems more likely that most people have some potential for homosexual desire and their environment is what keeps that desire suppressed.

I meant I chose not to live with a same sex partner. I prefer a mainstream lifestyle with a little fun on the side. You may be born with a degree of inclination toward same sex attraction but what you DO about that is indeed a choice.

I've chatted with him through his Twitter account, but he's strictly a top so we aren't a match. A real pity because he has a cute round little ass, that I could make good work with. 😈

Nature + Nurture. To me it always seems a little bit of both...not purely biological. My question with the younger brother theory is how gay is gay ? Does this account for bisexual brothers or just boys who jumped into the gay pool with BOTH feet ? I am the oldest and I dabbled in being gay and decided against the lifestyle but still enjoying the perks.😉 My brother is effeminate and everyone thinks he's gay but happily married with kids and told me he tried sucking dick in college but it didn't appeal to him at all. So for both of us we gave it a go...but decided it wasn't for us romantically. But I do enjoy the down-n-dirty of the sex part. So how gay do you need to be to be part of this study ?

I know a lot of gay men who are only children. The more common correlation I witness with the vast majority of gay men is a distant father, not an older brother.

He sounds hot.

Maybe it's because you grow up with your older brothers using you as a cum rag ? 🤔..and you learn to dig it.

What are you waiting for ? 🤣

Part time drag performer.

I don't mind sharing certain information via direct message, but yeah...be a gentleman and introduce yourself first.