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I enjoyed gay life in KL, it was a bit scaring when my local friends told me about being able to get arrested and thrown into jail. However still some nightlight, not a lot. That was very sweet to read . Sounds like you will have a blast in KL when you go. I hope you guys make it to KL. Thank you . Possibility, not sure at this moment.

Thank you! It would be great to reconnect in DC Victor. Your welcome. Thank you for reading.

I'm really looking forward to Siem Reap, I think I am going to spend at least one week there. The hotels I've been eyeing are both inexpensive and beautiful. I've heard that everything is inexpensive as you mentioned. I've set up an Instagram to hopefully post my travels in general. Many may not know this about me but I absolutely love to travel overseas. In the past 4 years i've spent probably 1 to 1 1/2 years overseas. Thank you

The best visual example I can give, if you have ever watched Crazy Rich Asians. It’s real and it’s definitely the case overseas. Clash of western and eastern cultured, large wealth divides and crazy lifestyle! But everyone are still human beings I half tease to myself that I shouldn’t have dropped my rates in Asia at all. I’m kicking myself that I don’t speak any mandarin. If I did, I probably could have stayed overseas for at least a year haha. I wish I took those mandarin lessons that’s my mom pushed me to take. -sigh- If you don’t speak Mandarin and they don’t speak English they aren’t likely to hire for an extended booking for obvious reasons. Many people outside of China speak mandarin better than English. I gotten many messages asking if I spoke mandarin. In my best case only Cantonese. If you are a western escort who can speak Mandarin. You could call china your new home and forget the states haha. (Half tease) Time for me to spend more time on Duolingo

Correct. Any boys in those countries who are college educated, speak English and can connect with them are typically in the same high society circle they run in and wouldn’t typically be in the business of being a companion. They would normally just be in line to run their family business or help run an aspect of their family business. Rates are typically on the higher end in more developed countries ie Singapore, Hong Kong, Australia and Japan.

I charged $250 for an hour while I was in Asia. I only had two bookings that were one hour. All my other bookings were multi hour - multi days. So I definitely got a lot more inquires in Asia than I do back in the states. So normally back home, I don’t get many inquires but when I do, it normally translates into about a 90% booking rate. I never fully understood some other escorts writing about getting lots of inquires, flakes, time wasters etc. till I went to Asia. I probably had 30-40 people reach out in some cities. With a 10% booking rate. Many were trying to negotiate down my rate or didn’t bother reading my ad or website just clicked the call buttono_O. I won’t lie, once I got to my 1k goal for the week. I shut off my phone lol. Local boys told me they make 500-1000 usd a month. Sometimes less sometimes more. Average salary in many of these places ranges from 250-900 usd a month. There are many western escorts in Asia with a majority of them being Caucasian. Many of them charge 150-250 usd an hour give or take. Some feedback I had gotten from my clients in Asia is that they wanted an asian escort who was western and could provide a romantic experience with a genuine emotional connection. So there is a half baked truth to the “me love you long time” joke. The local boys I hired (I enjoy contributing to the local economy) who are very sweet and kind. A few tried to pull the me love you long time card aka sometimes a lack of healthy boundaries on me. It was sweet but sometimes frustrating. I also met a few locals (platonic meetups) who were educated and never tried pulling the I love you script but treated me more like their friend which I absolutely loved and had a great connection! I gave a few pointers and tips to the local boys, how to interact with western clients, retain clients and build their business. However it’s just a totally different way of thinking and doing things for some of them. Some of the boys literally live from client to client, constant visa runs etc, lack of financial stability, send remittances back home to their family and a really bad societal stigma of being a “money boy”. In Asia they view it as an extremely shameful and dirty job. Asia is a very elitist and classist society, that is the culture and very different from western view point. Even the color of your skin matters within the asian classes. You ever hear the phrase “tiger mom”. Social standings are very important in asian eastern societies that are not so emphasized in western culture. It totally explains why my mom would never let me go outside in the sun or covered me in sun screen if I had to go outside. Making comments about how nice it would be if I kept my skin fair. It’s just their culture. I believe two people can have an amazing time together, love each other, enjoy one another’s company, then move on with their lives and reconnect if their paths happen to across again. In my opinion this is how I always viewed the client - escort relationship. Some paths reconnect more often than others and that’s perfectly ok. I try to keep this healthy boundary for myself. To be fair to the boys, when I was younger I had fallen once for a client, but it never went further. 20/20 hindsight, I now think to myself “why would someone in their 50s/60s date an 19 year old almost 3x under their age?” There is some major hurtles in terms of emotional development and life experience. An early 20s boy (my current age) is the way to go ;-) haha teasing but it’s a reality I never understood until I got older. So long story short, there is a market for quality guys who are educated, romantic and want to form genuine connections in Asia. How big of a market? I don’t know. For me it was big enough to satisfy what I wanted. There also might be a large market for guys who want that NSA, let’s get it done kind of sessions. I’m not too sure as wasn’t the theme of my appointments. Anyone that sent me grotesque photos or videos I immediately blocked. ?. I literally got a message where the first line was “here is a video of me getting fisted by a huge hand, can you do this to me”. I couldn’t have hit the block button any faster. That’s fine if that’s your kink but a proper “Hello my name is xyz, I’m into abc, do you think we would be a fit” would have been up my alley.

Just a heads up, this is a "keeping it real", no glamour write up. Remember this is my experience and how I've processed everything I've learned. It will likely contain tips, general knowledge and some nice general entrainment for many. I am currently writing this from my hotel room in Sydney. Since August 1st. I've travelled to - Chicago - San Deigo - Honolulu - Seoul - Hong Kong - Tokyo - Hokkaido - Bangkok - Phnom Penh - Kuala Lumpur - Bali - Singapore - Sydney Upcoming on my travels - Carines - Melbourne - Back to Hong Kong - Siem Reap - Shanghai - Maybe Vietnam Likely to go back stateside sometime end November - early January. FAQ Why? I graduate school next year! (woo). The last part of my program is completely online and I am able to do school and travel at the same time. Once I decide to start working and realistically I won't get 6 months to travel freely like this again. I want to thank a lot of people who encouraged me to go on this adventure, many of whom are on this forum. It's been a great trip for me to somewhat open my mind to the world and grow a little bit maturity wise and my emotional development. How? I was initially scared because of the duration, costs and practicality. My general monthly costs at home include two dc apartments, private health & dental insurance, quarterly tax payment that i save every month to pay, money to my family, phone bill, gym, food and toiletries. This normally runs up 7-8k in responsibilities a month, it is stressful to think about sometimes. I am generally a frugal individual who really values every dollar that is earned and spent. I used to stress out about $650 rent payment when I was 16 and homeless (family & parent issues :'( shit sucked). Granted one of the apartments I rent out full time as an AIRBNB business. I decided to to rent out my primary apartment. This covered a good portion of my expenses at home (not so much during the bad months). I've had great luck and been blessed. I thank everything that has happened and the people who have helped me. Can't be grateful enough. Travel Costs I decided to work during my travels so this impacted my costs as I decided that 4 - 5 star hotels would be my main accommodations. Costs include, flights, hotel, food, tours, activities and misc expenses, this cost about 4k-5k a month. I've travel frequently enough where I get upgraded rooms and flights, this has helped significantly with my costs. I could have cut my expenses in half if I stayed in Hostels or coach surfed. So something to definitely think about and decide what is best for your situation. Information I've used the following to get all my information to help me on my trip and enjoy everything! - Trip Advisor - google flights - Marriott bonvoy (playing with dates, costs and strategically placing myself in the most advantageous position) - friend's i've made on previous trips - any client advice! I am a big believer in reaching out and talking to everyone! Even people on grindr were super helpful and nice once they found out I was traveling (even gave me help to find a good hospital when I got sick with traveler's sickness). Escorting In many of the countries, local talent rates ranged from $20 usd to $100 usd with $50 being the median for a short appointment and $50 - $400 usd with $100 being the median for a longer appointment (overnight). I kept my rates similar to my rates back in the States. Your cliental overseas in most asian countries will likely be the top 5%-10% of the local population, expats or other travelers as well. I averaged about ~$1,000 a week, this was perfect for me. I broke even on most of my traveling costs and it gave me the time to focus on school and enjoy the traveling. I typically spent a week in a city. It gave me 3/4 days to study / focus on school and 3/4 days to focus on being a tourist and enjoy local sites and culture. So if you were thinking about coming to Asia to make lots of money some cities are definitely better for this ie. Hong Kong, Singapore and Australian cities. I can't attest personally as that was not the purpose of my trip. However (side note to the section) - I would generally say if you are a conventionally attractive escort coming with no link you will do well in the cities mentioned above and it will definitely pay for your trip and make some money. How much? this will likely depend on a few things; luck, your current network overseas, business skills and timing. I've observed Asian clients overseas are typically very conservative. I'm generally a very conservative individual in nature so it was not an issue for me. For ie. no hugging or pda in public, I pretended I didn't know them or they were family (easier since I am asian and they are asian and the age gap between us made sense logically). I remember reading a post by another escort mentioning that asian clients are very picky. So I booked mostly 5 star hotels to avoid this. 5 Star hotels overseas are generally inexpensive compared to their counterparts in the States and Europe. So far i've never had a client complain about the location/hotel. Most of the time they compliment/praise the location or hotel. (trip advisor will be your biggest friend). Tips - Get an international plan with FAST data!!, its annoying to swap out sim cards imo and data is very important for many obvious reasons - Get Whatsapp, Line and Wechat - If you just want to come over to make money and not explore the culture / leave your hotel room. I wouldn't recommend doing a trip like this. You could likely utilize your time more effectively doing other things. - Board-less account. Carrying thousands of dollars overseas in Asia? No I'm too conservative and risk conscious to consider this. A majority of my payments were electronic bank wires. Definitely recommend to do your research. YMMV (Your Milage May Vary) - Hire local talent just to pick their brain and talk about the business and their life. I've always had a curiosity for knowledge in general. So the opportunity to learn about other cultures, other people's lives and how business works overseas is golden here. - Speak to locals, i'm a very chatty person (this might annoy you but when you are overseas you will never know until you ask) Take Aways At times i'm homesick and disliking not being home with my family, friends and loved ones. Other times I really love life, seeing, eating, exploring, meeting and experiencing new places, cultures, food, things and people! So I'm definitely no shrinking violet. I hope this post has been informative to those looking for some information or confidence or some sort of current evidence and entertaining for those who just enjoy reading about different view points or sharing life experiences. Growing up I was sort of an under dog. I never felt like I belonged. I grew up working class, my parents worked 14 hour days, I worked in their business every summer and almost everyday after school since I was 7/8 years old. School mates would make fun of me "ching ching why don't you go back to your country", "can you see? be careful not to walk into walls", "do you speak english", derogatory names, turned their eyes into almond shape to mock me, made fun of my clothes and my parents car. I was even pushed physically and pushed to the ground, kicked and tripped. Of course I fought back and told them to f$%# off. It wasn't until high school we got separated by academic levels and I was separated from most of the lot. Then different comments came along such as "it's not fair, he's asian, it comes natural for him". You could say I used to have a chip on my shoulder and there may be some remnants of it. My parents lost their business and home when I was 16. Shit got tough. It sucked. I decided to give up an academic full ride to college, my parents were hurting physically and financially (they are close to their 60's at this point), going through shit mental health wise and had to grow up and face reality. 20/20 thinking back, I sometime chuckle because I have always been blessed, had good health, had both my parents, both parents worked, born in a first world country, never had to fight in a civil war, the normal first world amenities we take for granted. Now present day, I'm happy with a healthy mental state. I help my parents out. I am surrounded by good friends, loved ones and graduating university soon. I'm going to humble brag, a few years ago I got the chance to take my parents on their first vacation in 21 years. I took them 2 months overseas in Europe. I got some really good tests scores for grad school and it looks like i'm heading in that direction. Something that had helped me greatly was thinking back to when people would kick me down physically or verbally in my face. I remember those feelings, forgive them, try to never make anyone else feel this way, treat them the way they want to be treated, be positive and I count the blessings I current have. Everyone has things they are working on and a past. I try to be the best person I can be everyday. If you have any questions that have not been answered, please ask. I've always believed in having a constant curiosity for knowledge!

Hello, it’s been a long time since I have posted. I am heading to Asia and Australia. I’ll be touring for almost 3-4 months. Do any escort or daddy have help, tips, warnings or special procedures that could be shared with me via pm or comments below! Thank you

https://rent.men/SantiagoRossello Hi, everyone. My good friend just got into escorting today! He is extremely handsome and intelligent. He is going to grad school in DC and would make an wonderful companion for the hour or the entire night. Please tell him I sent you his way and he will be very accommodating or feel free to PM me.

You get it like a rental, so you have the entire place to yourself during the duration you book.

I have a second apartment in DC that I only use for work. Furnished with the basic necessities and of course lots and lots of towels and sheets. $200 a night, no night minimum, please reach out to me if interested. Open to anyone :-) Right Off Logan Circle Junior One Bed Room 600 Sq Ft King Bed West Elm Pull Out Sofa in Living Room 2015 Construction Intercom System No Doorman

It is totally available to anyone, sorry didn’t mean to exclude! Money is money.

I have a second apartment in DC that I only use for work. Furnished with the basic necessities and of course lots and lots of towels and sheets. $200 a night, no night minimum, please reach out to me if interested. Right Off Logan Circle Junior One Bed Room 600 Sq Ft King Bed West Elm Pull Out Sofa in Living Room 2015 Construction Intercom System No Doorman

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Hi, I'm unable to make it to NYC and I've booked a non-refundable hotel stay. I'm selling it for $300. If any escort or client was interested in taking it. The same hotel is currently booking for almost double than what I paid for. Great deal IMO. I will just change the name on the reservation. Details: Check in March 28 2019 Check out March 30th 2019 Two nights 4 Star Hotel in FiDi Downtown NYC $300 Let me know!

Condom size generally refers to the girth of a man. Awhile back I made a mistake and used a regular sized condom on a guy who should have been in a magnum. Semen leaked out of the condom because it was too tight and I ended up with a cream pie. Oops. This obviously effects bottoms more than tops Freaked me out at the time. Lesson learned make sure the condom is the right size. For both larger girths and smaller girths. Unsolicited condom recommendations Snugger: kimono micro thin Average: Trojan bareskin Larger: Trojan magnum bareskin All three condoms are amazing in terms of thinness and durability. My motto: safety first

I can count on my two hands how many guys have complimented me on using a condom for oral. I’ve lost count how many have complained and I’ve only started doing it 6 months ago. Pattern I’ve noticed the guys who complimented me were guys who lost friends to AIDS when there wasn’t a cure and they didn’t know what was going on. It’s scary. It’s fucked up to expect someone to put themselves at risk when they have communicated openly and clearly they are not willing. Too many assholes.

@stevenkesslar happy birthday! If you ever wanted me as a birthday gift... I’ll be more than happy. Warm regards

Thank you for the birthday wishes. I spent my birthday week in Morocco. Currently in Switzerland on the bunny slopes. Face plant count: 1

Let's think this through together. More than likely the maids only come to the room once. Some providers will ask for extra sheets or take extra sheets. Some providers will lay down towels. Some are ok with neither. Unless you are getting a hotel room for the provider for just you and him. Also it's a hotel room room, provider or non provider people have done things in that bed regardless of new or dirty sheets. It's sort of the elephant in the room. Hotel rooms can run hunderd to several hundred a night. On top of a provider If you are only going for an hour appointment. That will most likely only cover travel and hotel costs for a provider. More than likely they will have to see multi clients or have multi hour bookings to cover their costs and make it worth it to tour your city.

I am confused. Why are you asking about legitimate Spas and LTMs who offer "extras"? It confuses me in general when people ask. Massuerfinder or massagem4m are probably some better places to find a sensual massage. Please take due diligence to read the ads and some of them are strictly therapeutic.

Life is short and your time is precious. With 24 hours in a day, average person sleeps 8 hours a day. That leaves us with 16 hours. A normal job is typically 8 hours of work with an hour commute, and an hour lunch. This leaves us with 6 hours of available time for the average normal model individual to spend on activities beyond what I have already mentioned. - Career - Body - Health - Friendships - Emotional development - Emotional growth - Family - Relaxation / personal time - Sleep - Education - Finding happiness There is absolutely no way for anybody to work on every thing all at once. You have to pick what to focus on and other things will get negligent. No one is perfect. However sometimes I hear expectations that absolutely blow my mind. Highly educated, ripped body, highly developed emotionally, has a career, hot, and under 25. What. If someone focuses on their career, family and sleep then that normally leaves very little time for other areas, and that is perfectly ok. You can switch out what someone focuses on however the end result is the same... there may be someone who is able to do everything I've mentioned at once but I don't think it is the norm. Point being, why bash someone else's decision on what they decide to focus on? If someone decides they need to focus on body, health, and decide they need to find help with money and use their body and health. That's cool. If someone decides they want to focus on their education and career and decide they need help with emotional development and use their money from the return of their education and career. Go for it. If someone doesn't meet what you are looking for in their focus's. Move on. Telling someone they should change what they focus on in their lives because you think it's the right way or suggesting about other people what they should focus on in their lives because you think you are right. What. Some people totally get it and some don't.

Standard for many female escorts. Id Linked in Deposits (in some cases depending on duration) 2 references from other providers Tier 411

I don't understand the issue. This reminds me of the comments my close minded parents would say about anyone not white or Asian.

18-35 and cute ! Thank you for making me clarify