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Mmm sad they're both only tops. They're both very much my type. Maybe if they're both enthusiastic cock suckers and kissers it could work

The ideal time for Thermas is always between 4pm and 8pm, on any day. Fridays and Saturdays are the most busy. Most boys arrive between 4 and 5 and around 7 many already start to leave. Glad you still had fun! 😊

My skin and mucous membranes are overly sensitive and I've found that all standard brands end up irritating in some form or another. I've been using 99% Aloe Vera gel. Just the Aloe Vera gel with a smidge of preservatives (which are always needed, since otherwise the lube develops yeast and bacteria) with no perfumes or anything else added. To me it's the best of both worlds of water and silicone: it's slick and lasts longer like silicone, but washes off easily like water based. I usually carry it in an unmarked bottle (I buy a big container and transfer it) and have had guys commenting on how they liked the lube and asked me where I got it, or if I made it myself. I used to also make my own lube from golden flaxseed which is absolutely top tier, but a hassle to store and there is a bit of a (not unpleasant) smell.

Ah thanks! I meant more if there were massage parlors with masseurs that catered to the gays (often with happy endings).

A friend of mine is visiting San Francisco in a few weeks. I was talking to him about my experience in the various gay spas in NYC and he wondered if there are (gay) spas like that in San Francisco. So I thought I'd ask the knowledgeable people of this forum : are there any spas in San Francisco akin to those in NYC? (like the ones discussed in the thread about spas in NYC, the ones where happy andings are a possibility and maybe even a table shower) Thanks!!

Correct. The base rate is relatively cheap but only when you fly with a tiny bag with no extras and non-changeable flight. Adding baggage will quickly raise the rate (be sure to always add the baggage during the booking of your flight because at the airport it's double or triple that rate). And if you want a ticket that's refundable or can be changed it can easily double the rate. And they try to have you pay for a seat and be sure to check in online!! Checking in at the airport is crazy expensive (with Ryanair at least it is, they charge about 80 euro to print your boarding pass).

Could you elaborate a bit more? What happened and where did you meet (or didnt)? He's in Paris now and this thread is about Brussels.

I thought it was probably the settings. From the articles I don't see where they will block the sites. It seems one provider has developed a suite of tools for parents to have more control over the internet acces in their house. There is mention of blocking known phishing sites, but not of adult sites. I'd be very surprised if any actual blocking were to happen since both escorting and adult movies are legal in Belgium. Only one website ever was blocked by providers after the government forced them to and that's the original PirateBay, a site that distributed ways to download movies and tv series without paying for them.

Which internet/phone provider are you with? I live in Belgium and can still freely access all the sites you listed. Both on my home wifi and my mobile data. I also saw no mention of this on the news anywhere.

In Europe the main site is Hunqz, the professional side of the gay dating site romeo.com (it used to be called GayRomeo, then changed to Planetromeo, now it's just Romeo). You need to create an account on Romeo first before you can view the Hunqz profiles. You cannot view the profiles without being logged in (which is possible on rentmen)

Could you send me links to these courses via private message? I'm interested. Thanks!

At those rates you may be cheaper off getting a massage course in Thailand. I've heard very good things about them. Is the high cost because of the certification? Or is it just USA prices? Where I live in Europe you can get a full course (12 lessons) for about 900 dollars. Masseurs don't need certification or a license though where I live. When I look for erotic massages, I take any claims of training in the profile with a grain of salt. Having said that, I do think being actually trained and good at massage will make it more likely to get repeat business. When I book an erotic massage, I really do also want to get a good massage. I usually don't go back to someone who gives me a bad massage, even if the erotic elements were fun. So I think it's good to at least get SOME training. A lot can be learned by just doing a one day workshop or a weekend training. I'm sure there are options like that that don't cost 8k or upwards.

Has anyone seen him?

Which other countries have you had table showers in?

Yeah it's strange. Today (Monday) I arrived there at 3pm. I saw that the opening hours listed at the entrance say 24h only for a few days. On Monday it said they opened at 3pm. The receptionist also said they were just opening and that they had been closed for the party. So there's definitely parties happening, but I also can't find any advertising for them.

Does tall Rodrigo still work there?

I bought all my favorite foods and am staying in both binge eating while binge watching tv

Not all clients hire simply because they're horny and need to unload. The first holidays after my divorce, I enquired with a regular (at the time) if we could have a session around Christmas. I felt lonely and did not want to be with the little family I had because it would remind me of the divorce.

I hired Wagner Vittoria when I was in Rome for a few days years ago. Google him, he's very cute. The experience was a very mixed bag. Very friendly but worked me out the door in about 30 minutes, was glued to his phone texting when we weren't actively engaged in sex.

I think on Rentmen you can filter on dick size. Dick size is a required entry on an escort's profile, so everyone will have it filled out. You can put a filter for top and then for the dick size you want.

Did you find anyone for a good experience? I might be going to Dublin myself soon

What's his rate?

A provider gave me a free overnight. Let me give the context. I was on vacation for the weekend and hired him on Friday. The session was so incredible I hired him again for 1 hour sessions on both Saturday and Sunday. He's not a clock watcher and stayed well past the hour (I tipped him 50% of his hour rate, even though where I hire, tipping is not customary). After he'd left my hotel on Sunday, we both realized he'd left something in my room. So he comes back and I invite him to dinner. Throughout the dinner sparks are flying and as the dinner ends he has this hopeful, expectant look in his eye. But at that point my hiring budget for my vacation had been spent. I do invite him back to my hotel, but neither of us broach the subject of payment. And it was never talked about. He left in the morning (I had to catch my flight) without mentioning it. There seemed to be no indication from him that he was expecting payment or was disappointed I didn't offer when he left. We've texted since and he appears eager to see me again (so I assume there's no bad blood from his side?). My head was reeling the whole weekend because we connected deeply (not just sexually, we also talked for hours) and I've never been in this situation before where a provider was SO generous with his time, so I was unsure and insecure on how to handle it. And now, a day later, I feel bad. I feel like I took advantage of him (even though it wasn't intentionally). Should I still mention it? I'm afraid that ultimately there might be resentment built up from his side.

I've learned it's best to include the statement they're out of my budget (without opening up any discussion about fee reduction). I've noticed if I just said thank you and moved on, some would be upset and keep pushing why I wasn't hiring them. I would then say they're out of my budget. Now I simply thank them for the info, mention they're outside my budget and wish them a good day/evening and then move on

100% tip is for absolutely exceptional level of service, not just "more than therapeutic". We all know why we go to these gay spas (and they know why we go them), if there wouldn't be an "extra service", it'd be odd. I agree with the above poster that 40 dollars is a good tip. I only tipped 100% one time and the masseur was so taken aback that I think it doesn't happen often. But then his service has been exceptional.