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A good escort will act so as to let you believe that you are the center of his earth. As a client, when I see such an ad, I run the other way. As I am neither, I would fear that this guy would not be able to be let me delude myself that his is as into me as I want to believe he is.

After many many years of hiring 2-3x a year, I only rebooked once and he was a disappointment the second time due to things taking off in his career including porn. Finally found a guy and have rebooked him. It is emotionally exhausting trying to figure out if and how you fit into this guys MO for want of a better term. No matter how much you communicate, escorts, particularly on a first meeting have their game plan that they fall back on. While they might flip or flop on an activity to accommodate you, they have a way they function. Escorts have their quirks and often ignore when you ask. One guy I found out too late wouldn't kiss, for his BF only. Another would let you top him but no fingers. While it is also exciting to try new adventures, there is a great comfort in finding someone where you know the connection exists and the meeting will be physically and emotionally satisfying.

Since RM only allows premium members to write reviews I don't have that problem. But I would only write negatively about objective criteria, not if there was not "connection" as long as I felt the guy was "showing up" and not mailing it in.

The price for escorts will continue to fluctuate based on supply and demand. The biggest issue is the total lack of transparency, no one actually knows what the market is. You set your price based on the amount of business you want and how much business you are getting. Too busy, you can raise your rates, not busy enough you may want to lower them. It might mean that you do have to see more customers to make what you want. But for many this is a what ever I have left at the end of the month type of expense and this will affect what they are willing to or can pay.

Just been looking at RM. Seems on the free public pics, no one is showing the goods, all covered up. Is this a change in RM policy to full frontal only in the premium pics or just those I happened to look at? Thought I used to see quite a bit of cock but apparently no more

Rates are an important consideration as is location and availability. If their location is given then the assumption is they can host, even like mid town or the name of the community if not central. But if they can't host than that should be stated and if uber required or whatever should be noted. Also many escorts have regular jobs or just don't like 3AM or even 11PM booty calls. So days and hours would be helpful. No sense in asking if they are available when they have a regular prior commitment. On general I thought that Daddy's site worked pretty well for my needs. Thanks for your work on this

PHI, protected health information only restricts health care providers, nothing to prevent a non health care provider from relating information that the provider has told them or that they experienced/observed. Nothing illegal ( just talking about legal here) about you telling your neighbor that the guy upstairs has AIDS,

I have not had a regular until now because no one checked enough boxes until now. Not that they flaked out or didn't give service, just never clicked enough. Had only seen one guy twice prior and he was less than stellar on the second go round. So I have seen this guy 3 times and await the 4th. He comes to town about every 2 months or so and that the the frequency. Still checking out new experiences, up to no, had hired maybe 4 times a year. Not sure if I will be exclusive with this guy as often or what I will do ongoing.

The City of Las Vegas, in Clark County, NV, is only about 20% of the valley, and the Strip is not in the City. Ironically one of the localities that the strip is in is Paradise, the other is Winchester. As a tourist you will never be aware of those names. Anyway Prostitution is illegal in Clark County. The main concern here is trafficing of young girls. The place I would be careful of is the adult book stores and their theaters more than anything else.

I have found that I ask some simple questions for local providers so it is not to fit into a 3 day visit. Can you host if yes where in town are you ( general location)? Any times you are or are not available and what do you charge. I never make a counter offer to a provider. You are in business, you set your rates. Your business profitability is not my concern. I actually hire an out of towner when he comes to town (Las Vegas) He actually takes a room in a top hotel just for customers, he stays in a different top hotel. I know he somehow gets free rooms but the details of all of this really are none of my concern. And he charges a low rate as he is an older guy. But the last thing I want to do is to state what you are worth to me. And I find that when I have said you are too expensive, to offer a lower rate or ask me what I can spend is really a turnoff. If you want 3 and we negotiate 2, I wonder if you will really be into offering your full attention or just dialing it in.

I will pay up to $300 max. But I have found that over $200 what you are paying for is more the body than the experience. You can't put a price on the connection you might or might no make. The body will only get you so far. Hiring can be of a ,whim and I will take the first guy available at whatever or sometimes I will see if several guys are available and go with the cheapest. But I never haggle with a guy over his rate, and really don't like i if I say your are too high and he offers a lower rate. I fear he will try to give less of him self, a discounted service for a lower rate.

I recently hired a provider, mid 30s, who was in porn, but is transitioning to more behind the camera. He stopped the action to tell me he needed to inject. He said he sometimes has a little trouble getting hard and then the anxiety sets in and forgetaboutit. He did say that he regularly uses it when performing as he does need to stay hard for hours and it is easier with the shot.

I list my age on RM as mid 60's so I leave you guessing as to the truth. Once past the initial agreement, which is usually a week before the date, I do identify myself as older, also admit to having ED. Never had a problem with an escort. But if he were to cancel, I would look at it being for the best, don't want to waste my limited opportunities to hire to be ruined on a guy who is so judgmental.

I just hired a guy. Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral. I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer. He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause, but I guess he needed the job. But he apparently gets enough work to pay his bills. But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience. Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?

I am not sure who on this is being rejected for age, the client or the escort. But as what definitely qualifies as older in almost any demographic short of a nursing home, I don't ever recall being turned down due to my age, unless they just did not respond to an initial request for contact as location and rates. Several ads I have seen specifically say into older men. As I have aged, I find myself seeking older providers. I now don't really look at guys under 30! Older men seem to be less impressed by themselves and are realistic about their no longer quite so great bodies and thus able to personally relate more than the hotter younger guys. For many reasons I have rarely hired the same guy more than once, but one that I recently have and plan on hiring again is not that far from Social Security and my body is at least in as good shape as his.