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So I was at a friend's gay Christmas party, lots of fun and games, including one of those games where you have to reveal embarrassing facts. I got the question, "who was the best sex of your life?" It wasn't even hard, I knew instantly, but have no idea what his name was. It was around 2013 in NYC. He was a stripper, kind of the blond built but not overly so. He had a college boy look. Incredible pole dancer. Had an extreme kink side. Basically started busting my balls while giving me a lap dance. And though he probably didn't talk to everyone about this, had a big love for firearms. When he found out I own a machine shop he got all excited about maybe making a gun replica. I've never been fucked by anyone with such enthusiastic excitement and endurance. I'd love to remember his name, maybe find out if he's still seeing clients. Might be worth the trip.

I started hiring when I was 23ish. I had a great career, but worked a minimum of 80 hour weeks, and didn't have time to be curious the traditional route. When I first started hiring, I wanted someone my age. To me, that meant no one over 27. There was an escort advertising, back then, who had the look I liked, but he was 29. And for me back then, that was older than I was looking for. Now fast forward 20 years. I am 42, I definately hire around my age, but still don't mind the occasional college guy. I still see that escorts add pop up once in a while. Amazingly, he's only 34. He somehow managed to only age 5 years in 20. If I see his ad pop up again, I'll share, but it only seems to be up for a day at a time. So my question here is, how common is it for escorts to lie about their age? Do they think they are fooling anyone? I hired a very well reviewed escort in New York once who claimed late 20's, and was obviously mid to late 30s, and I was extremely disappointed then. But all his reviews never mentioned his age.

The short answer is yes to both. It got to where he wouldnt charge me for weekends I was in town, and to me, he was exactly what I wanted personality wise, physically, as well as in bed. We were even close to the same age. Then one time together, he told me he was thinking of quitting escorting to take school seriously. I offered for him to move in with me, and I would help him with school. He was excited about the idea, and we spoke about it often over the next few weeks, and then his phone number was disconnected and he disappeared. Then, he contacted me. It was 6 or 7 years later. He said he had fallen on hard times, and was wondering if the offer was still available. I told him that a lot of time had gone by, but let's meet and catch up. We arranged a dinner date next time I was in town, and he had grown a substantial pot belly, lost his hair, hadn't showered in a while, and was obviously high. He wouldn't tell me what had happened, just kept trying to get me to take him to my room so he could convince me we should move in together. I felt bad for him. I offered to help him go through rehab, and told him if he could stay clean for 6 months, we would discuss it. He got mad, called me a bunch of things, and stormed off. That was the last I heard of him.

Add me as well. Fratboys are my weakness. As to the question, I have a couple from seeking arrangement I have a very regular relationship with. I also met a dancer at the corner pocket in Nola that I basically dated for about 6 months.

@MscleLovr, I am based in Salt Lake City.

Im just wondering if the infux of non pro competition has had any effect on escort rates? Ive hired many times in my life, and appreciate a good escort. I also believe in you get what you pay for, but having said that, two of my greatest finds in my life have been in just the last year through seeking arrangement. One of which is a young jock couple in college. One is a water polo player, the other a wrestler. I meet them at their place, they have dinner ready, we eat, cuddle on the couch for some tv, head to the bedroom where they give me a massage followed by some of the best play of my life, and they are always open to try new things. They found out a while ago that i hadnt actually tried many positions. The next time i met them, they had printed up a binder with all the different positions in them, top, bottom, 3 way, and oral, along with pictures and a description. And a special kink section in the back. Now everytime i go we try one top, one bottom, and one oral as well as variations. Once done, they have me rate each out of 10 points and mark it down for future reference. We then cuddle up, fall asleep, and in the morning they have breakfast ready along with a quicky, and send me on my way. For all that time and attention, they only want 200 per visit. I actually feel guilty and try to pay more, but they only have accepted once when their dog had some big vet bills. Another guy i just met, we went out to dinner, headed back to my place, sat in the hot tub and had a few drinks, went in and played in the bedroom for a couple of hours. When i went to pay him and take him home, he told me i payed him way too much. He was hoping for 80. and was happy with 100. We actually argued for a bit and he settled on taking 200. Both of these experiances rate in my top 10, actually top 3 for the couple. And yet they are a fraction of the cost of a pro with a better experience than many pros. Ive also had guys on there who want a new laptop or car or 1000 bucks to meet, but I've found plenty of really quality guys who seem more interested in a connection over a big payout. In fact, in the latters case, he was worried a large amount would ruin the experience for me. Its just got me wondering, with more amateur sites like that becoming available, has it impacted the business and pricing of professional escorts?

I had an appointment with him in dallas last year, and was really excited to meet him. I was traveling cross country, and went out of my way by quite a bit, basically i dropped down from the 70, and that's no small distance, to meet him based on his reviews. Unfortunately when i got there, he ghosted me and i never heard from him again. Based on how everyone talks about him, i wish i had had the chance.

M4rentnow used to offer client adds before they went down. I tried posting one stating what i was looking for, and never got any responses.

M4rentnow used to offer client adds before they went down. I tried posting one stating what i was looking for, and never got any responses.

Ive had both experiences. I had one escort I cancelled the day before with when i realized i was catching a cold, and he freaked out. He called me relentlessly for several days telling me i still owed him. He may have tried longer, but i blocked his number. On the flip side, just a few weeks ago i had to drive from pheonix to salt lake for work. After i hit the road, i thought i might as well make it a two day trip, and stop in Vegas. I checked out who was available, called, arranged what i was looking for, and booked a guy for a half night session for that night. He knew i was making a long drive, and told me to just give him a call when i got in, and he would come over. I stopped in kingman for food and fuel, which is pretty close to vegas, and shortly after was on the side of the road puking my guts out. I realized it was most likely food poisoning, and gave the escort a call. He suggested i get to the hotel, take a shower, and see if it was just a fluke, or more serious, and then update him. I did so, but was obviously in bad shape. I felt pretty bad about having to cancel with him when he was standing by, and was ready to offer to partially compensate him, but he wouldn't have it. He told me he was sorry my night in vegas was ruined, and he hoped i got feeling better before i had to hit the road again in the morning. He was beyond gracious, as opposed to the other guy who was just an ass. I think any decent person will realize that life happens, and be willing to adapt rather than blame.

I just told him that circumstances had changed and I was no longer available for meeting. I wished him luck, and he was very understanding.

It's not so much a need for discretion, as it is for respect for the grandpa. This nice older mormon guy went out of his way to help me in the business twenty years ago, setting me up with knowledge and contacts that have made me very successful. I don't feel I would be repaying his kindness by using the success he handed me for hireing his grandson for sex. Not that he judges me, and I don't judge the grandsons actions, it's just not an arrangement that would sit well with a man I really do respect, so it's off the table. Its too bad too, the guy is really hot.

It's not so much a need for discretion, as it is for respect for the grandpa. This nice older mormon guy went out of his way to help me in the business twenty years ago, setting me up with knowledge and contacts that have made me very successful. I don't feel I would be repaying his kindness by using the success he handed me for hireing his grandson for sex. Not that he judges me, and I don't judge the grandsons actions, it's just not an arrangement that would sit well with a man I really do respect, so it's off the table. Its too bad too, the guy is really hot.

So I gave it a try. I started chatting with one really hot guy who is a body builder, cute face, and very reasonable in his requests. Plus he has a kinky side which I love. I couldn't get over the fact that something about him seemed familiar however, so I hesitated on pulling the trigger, and never gave too much information about myself just incase. We've been chatting for a while now, and he's getting more eager, saying he needs some money for the holidays. I finally convinced myself I was being paranoid, and scheduled a date. Our date is Monday. Last night I went to a business Christmas party, and he was there. He's my old mentors grandson. I guess that puts an end to that.

Never mind, I found tons of info, I was just searching his full name instead of andrewk. Sorry, I can't figure out how to delete my original post.