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I had the same experience -- great fun, not earthshattering, but he didn't come across sketchy or dangerous at all. Never crossed my mind that he might not be on the up-and-up. This too was in Vegas, probably 3 or so years ago.

Or, as open as bars are these days. Thanks!

Fine at the moment, not especially memorable. In fact, I don't recall much detail.

He did. We met up in Montreal, also in 2016. I think he vanished from RM soon after. Not my fault, though.

Table for 3! I completely agree.

Table for 3! I completely agree.

Huh? Not trying to trick people? How not?

I remember that as well, but can't source it. But I do recall putting this guy on my BuddyList as a reminder, but took him off after some research that suggested he was sketchy.

Awesome fun. PM for details.

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He's amazing, but his ass is off-limits.

You've got to expect some percentage of flakes in any kind of customer service business. Comes with the territory. 60%, though? That's insane. Hopefully you're just on a streak of bad luck. Is that percentage common among escorts? Do the flakers book in advance or are they short-notice appointments? (If the latter, are the 4 out of 10 that work out worth the stress and anger the other 6 create for you? If not, consider going appointment only.) I totally agree with the suggestions to text night before/early day of. I'll usually book in advance if I'm travelling and text when I hit town and the morning of the appointment. Probably 50% of the time the guy I've hired will text me first to confirm. Gives both parties a sense of confidence that things will go as planned. I've had to cancel on short notice once or twice. Sometimes life happens. But, I always try to call to tell the guy directly, text if I can't get him. (I've had escorts no-show, but only one extended me the same courtesy.) Whether client or escort, there should be a special place in hell for those who just don't follow through.

As I recall, his escort reviews are at best mixed. And, he no-showed on me a couple of months ago.

@FTM Zachary Prince - funny, you hit the one point I decided not to add -- it occurred to me at the time to ask why he was leaving, but I didn't feel like I should be demanding a guy get back in bed. I was a newbie then. If it happened again now, not sure how I'd react. But, to me there's a big difference between asking someone whether you should go versus telling someone to stay, especially given the ultimately commercial nature of the transaction. YMMV I will say, though, if the situation is ambiguous, the provider should attempt to get clarity. Just seems like good business.

I had the reverse problem. Set up an in-call to an escort's hotel. Texted/called him a couple of times from the hotel lobby. Left after about 25-30 minutes, but got stressed out thinking he might be unconscious in a ditch somewhere. Couple of hours later, his "Available Now" light was on. Then I thought he might look good in that ditch.

I really disagree that an escort should end an otherwise respectful and fun session early based on his perception of "body language." Much easier and more professional to say "Let's [cuddle, take a shower, chat, whatever] or would you rather I head out?" When I first started hiring I had one guy pretty much jump into his underwear and get ready to leave as soon as we came with an hour left to what was otherwise a pretty good time (from what he said, for both of us). Paid him the whole fee, but felt pretty annoyed with myself for doing so after. I've also cut sessions short, even with good cause (guy went into a k-hole and started nodding off). If I do, I pay in full for all time booked. That said, I agree with the advice given the OP above: Don't just leave the donation out for the escort to pick up on the way out the door. Put it in an envelope somewhere sticking out in plain sight but not instantly accessible -- under a lamp, etc. At the end, hand him the envelope, stick it in his back pocket at last hug, etc. (My system may get a bit over-involved -- money in an envelope as above, potential tip money in a nearby dresser drawer, another stash of money in case we agree to extend. Works for me, though. I find it awkward to be fumbling through cash at the end of the session.) Don't book more than an hour first time with a provider. I used to suggest an option to extend until one guy stopped mid-thrust with 5-10 minutes left on the original hour to say "If you want me to finish it will cost another hour." Needless to say, I showed him the door. Shake it off and go find someone else to have fun with. Plenty of fish in the sea, grains of sand on the beach, and good, communicative providers out there.

No way that's Travis Blake, both from my prior meeting with him and the fact that Apolone lists as 6'3". Travis is nowhere near that (5'10 to 5'11) and isn't the kind of guy to lie on his profile or set up a fake one.

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You're a better man than I. A no-show shows no respect for your time, especially with all the blather (rightfully so) by responsible guys about wasting theirs. Kills your ability to make other plans for the night (and, for me at least, wastes a perfectly good Cialis ). CJ's ghost was especially dickish after his emphasizing the point in our call beforehand and the Uber request. And, back when I was a naive baby client, I actually spent a fair amount of time worried the guy was unconscious in a ditch or something. Glad your forgiving nature has led to good times. Me, I guess I hold grudges.

More re "the bad" -- set up an appointment with him, during which he repeatedly made the point that he required first-time clients to order him an Uber in order to make sure they weren't "flakes," explaining he'd been stood up on outcalls in the past. NBD, I'd have offered an Uber anyway. All was confirmed, then sent him a text about an hour before our meet re where and when the Uber should be sent. **crickets** Texted again a half-hour before and 5 minutes before. *crickets* Pulled the plug about 5 minutes after scheduled appointment time. Never heard a word again. Just say no, or have a Plan B.

Asked a guy I'd seen a couple of times in NYC (I'm from DC). Not only did he take it like a champ, he had a DC recommendation and called the DC guy first as an introduction. Apparently said nice things, b/c DC guy called, introduced himself and gave me his personal cell number. Both NYC guy and DC guy became heavy regulars and traveled with me overseas, until one left the biz and the other one moved farther away. Still good friends with both and frequently see DC guy for coffee. Both were/are awesome. I got very lucky. Never did play with them together, though. They just didn't seem to fit together in my brain. One at a time was plenty!

This. And, if that is a concern, you might want to get yourself one of these: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003JI4Q50/ref=od_aui_detailpages00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Explore what works for you. And, with these, you can either DIY it or bring them to your meet as one way your partner can help you warm up.

Chicago? Alx Ward https://rentmen.eu/AlxWard Tall, gorgeous, sweet, in-charge and would probably be excellent with a rookie! (I think he is 100% top, so not-so-great a choice if you want to flip, but sounds like what you're mostly interested in would be right in his wheelhouse). If you contact him (or any escort) just explain what you're looking for. Go have fun! PS -- I wouldn't go to a hook-up app first time around the block. IMHO, chances of finding someone who would actually be attuned to your needs as a first-timer are slim.

Yay! for truth on RM. Much preferred to the dudes who have their "Available Now" light on 24/7, then can't schedule until a day or two later.

Yeah, I'm a pretty vanilla, BFE guy (at least on first meeting) and thought my tastes would minimize the issue. Not so much lately.