It seems clear to me that "Rafael" is a total fake.
The photo above is on the Italian-language webpage of a man named Enrico Battisteri, who has a school for tantric massage.
Another photo on "Rafael"'s page is from the Men's USA tuxedo catalog.
When I called just now to cancel my appointment, instead of getting the usual "leave a message" recording, a man answered, using a different-sounding voice than "Rafael". He asked why I was calling that number for Rafael.
When I told him I had found his photos on other web sites, he admitted that he was, in fact, "Rafael", and would cancel my appointment.