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That makes me happy to hear....so many of those guys have so many issues as they go forward with life. If you care to, let him know a guy in Chicago remains a fan 🙂

Honestly, if I only have a few minutes to, um...relax myself...I watch the video of Zeb Atlas and Johnny Rapid as the boy scout. No idea why it gets me so steamed up. I hope that Zeb is enjoying his life these days and looks back on all of those awesome scenes fondly.

I ha so forgotten about 'Zsolt, the Hungarian"...he was such a sweet guy. For a minute he was working with another younger Hungarian guy who was also a waiter at a local diner...I still think about that encounter 20 years later.

Back when I was escorting (in the lates 90s, at the dawn of the internet age and start of rentboy.com), I had a thing called the two strike rule. I would see a client, they would generally enjoy it...if they would want to see me again I could not be available one time, but if I were not available on the second time he reached out the fellows interest would ease off and I would likely never get another phone call. It did not matter if I had been rocking that guys world for a year...I say no twice in a row they move on to another guy. This became more and more of an issue as my schedule filled up with clients and with college. This really bothered me, and I was trying all sorts of ways to keep track of schedules and make sure I was available or spring enticing tales of what collegiate activities made me unavailable....but I also started to realize that I was basically having relationships with some of these guys, and that was much more mentally exhausting (and honestly less sexually exciting) than getting new fellows. I had one guy who was super nice and paid well, but was a heavy smoker and wanted the same ridiculous scenario of me being a cop and pulling him over for speeding, forcing him to bend over for me. I was 6'2" and 180 lbs in a Northwestern sweatshirt, so why any of that made sense was beyond me. Each time it would end with him telling me he forgot his wallet in the car and asking me to walk out with him, so he could show me whatever car he was driving on loan from the dealership he worked out and I had to oooh and aww over it. He was the first one that I had to turn down twoice and did not ever call again, which was a financial sadness but a glorious mental relief. In today's world, now that I am the one shelling out the cash, I totally see the other side. A few touring escorts have gone the extra mile and allow you to use Calendly to book an appointment, which is handy but it also makes you think 'oh, he has seven slots available, is he going to see six guys before me if I pick the 10PM time?' which is kind of gross.

Here in Chicago, I have sat next to him at the counter in my local diner three or four times. He is not my type at all...that said, very handsome and friendly with the wait staff, which is a great sign. He has a hand tattoo, which I understand is popular but is not my cup of tea. After the last time, I looked up some of his video's to see how talented he is and was impressed.

There is something about Sean Austin...great accent, nice butt, but those fake looking lips? I used to always think about hiring him, but it gives me pause.

This is only my opinion, but it seems only fans has really cut back on the number of adult film stars who are escorts. It used to be I'd constantly run across notable performers who escorted...now they are all making 10x the money producing model generated content. Has anyone else noticed this?

Planning a trip to London in a few weeks and I am hoping this place is up and running. The website domain seems to be for sale, which seems like a bad sign. Does anyone have a contact phone number? h! David

In case you are looking at airbnb spaces I have a beautifully located (a 6 minute walk to the gay strip) space that is very escort friendly. Discount for forum folks who send me a note :-) I am going to be targeting the space for use by escorts. https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/49290332?guests=1&adults=1&s=67&unique_share_id=4c3f0f3a-c30e-4690-bd07-2f1967211711

Alrighty, I took all of the feedback to heart and have procured an adjoining one bedroom flat to put up on Airbnb. It’s going to be a fully private listing and will come with a very study bed. I’m planning on also offering up the ability for it to include a massage table / massage supplies for traveling masseurs. It’s perfectly located at Racine and Addison in chicago and is also accessed from a ground level vestibule, eliminating chance encounters with other building residents in the stairs. Anyone on here want to market it for me to the escort / masseur community?

Reading that the fellow took off after 13.5 years and with you doing so very much for him is just so very weird. That is such a long time to be with a person, so to just pack up and go without a discussion blows my mind. I am so sorry to hear that. I was an escort in my early 20s and formed such close attachments to all of the guys I saw often (and recently going to a memorial service for one of them, which was so sad) that it blows my mind thinking about this. Even the clients that I decided to part ways with got a graciously done exit.

That would be an interesting duo...there is like a foot in height difference between them. From what I have seen, Austin Wolf has a rather nice apartment for New York standards. Gabriel is literally some of the best canoodling that I have ever experienced and he seems like an honestly nice guy. Though he is a bit long in the tooth to be claiming under 30 :-)

I always put escorts in the second floor flat, which was private and fully contained (and rather nice...it was supposed to be my private area). I think I had a few escorts slip in, though, under the radar renting other rooms in shared areas. Which would be super weird as a client. Had they asked / not assumed I was a prude I would have set them up with a different spot

By the day, just like an airbnb, and possibly using the airbnb platform to handle the reservations. I would not want local guys to use it.

Hello fellows. Question. I was an old pro at the airbnb game (like, hosted three different listings for years and years in an awesome flat...heres an old ad https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/1141045?s=67&unique_share_id=99104310-d8ba-4f68-a4fd-d667642c1e28 ) until late last year when I decided sort of abruptly to simplify life and move out of my mess. I was also as escort in the late 90s and early 2000s and find everything to do with escorts and the industry to be fascinating. I am returning to the gay neighborhood to an awesomely located apartment and I am debating putting the second bedroom on airbnb post pandemic and after my renovation wraps up. I will admit that my life has become a bit boring and I need some distractions. Here is the question...#1, if I fitted this out and offered up access to amenities that massage industry folks might appreciate (I could keep some bottles of massage stuff on hand along with a table and linens and structure the living room to work nicely for it to happen) do you think traveling guys might be interested. #2, would the fact that it is a shared space weird providers out (though I'd sort of be in the back of the flat and would not be present when they are entertaining and likely often be at my weekend house and invisible to their clients). #3, I could market it towards escorts and tacitly turn a blind eye to whatever they might do in their bedrooms and make sure to have a firm bed frame and extra sheets. TBH, I miss hosting but not the full time work involved and would love to get to meet industry guys and support their ability to bring joy to the world. I'm also a super big pervert in a harmless way, so this would all really be fun to be around. I had a couple of guys who rented my stand alone airbnb (Gabriel Cross was there several times) and it was totally fun to be industry adjacent.