BillyMan

This thread is three years old and closed but I'd like to revive it. Some of the rules in the thread (only on work trips, one-and-done, don't fall in love) were mentioned in Dany Levy's movie "Good Grief." Background: Hubby of 20 years and I never discussed rules, but our relationship was open: we had three-ways with a few escorts, and independently hired masseurs and escorts. Then, on a trip to Florida, we visited LeBoy and hubby connects with one of the dancers. Before I know it, they are visiting each other twice a month, and then the dancer moved closer to us in NY/NJ. After getting over the initial hurt, I have come to accept the situation. Hubby seems happy and takes good care of me and family (and his boyfriend); I am free to have fun outside the marriage. I'm not ready for divorce yet; too many financial connections (and kids). One friend told me to accept that I'm in a polyamorous relationship, except that I don't have a romantic relationship with anyone else ... right now. That might change soon. So now I ask: how are the rules different for open vs. polyamorous relationships?

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Travling solo. Happy to meet others for dining, dancing, exploring. Send me a private message if interested.

I thought "Good Grief" was sweet but unsatisfying. The writer could have used more feedback on the script. Although it was somewhat clear what Dan Levy's character's issues were, that was not the case of his two friends. And while we saw a bit of how Levy's character, Marc, resolved his issues, we did not see how his two friends struggled with theirs and grew. They just showed up at the end as better off. (Also not happy that Marc's man in Paris, Theo, seemed to have been discarded.)

Questions for fellow introverts: - What are your strategies for connecting with others at gay bars (other than staring at them if they catch your fancy)? - Does your strategy differ with your intention: hooking up vs. developing friendships? - Is it easier to connect in settings where the intention is more obvious (sex parties, Meetup groups, etc.)? Thanks, and happy new year!

Enjoyed my 75-minute massage with Shane. His strokes were not rushed but very intentional and varied. He is well-trained and skilled. Pressure was moderately strong as requested. When he applied oil, it was not excessive; I was not super-greasy afterwards. Lots of stretching was included. Conversation was polite and pleasant ... not too much at all. All in all, a great experience. One of my most satisfying. Will repeat.

You can search this site using the numbers at the end of the URL. Of those listed, I highly recommend 1881 (Billy). PM if you want more details.

I have to second that nomination. Stelly is very friendly and skilled. Great mix of therapeutic and relaxing/sensuous. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/20502/

My experience is limited, but I think massage places in the Philippines are not at the same level of class and cleanliness as those in Thailand, Taiwan, etc. That said, this gentleman makes lots of Youtube videos in which he visits different spas in the Philippines and receives different kinds of treatments, including very sensual massages. He's enjoying the royal treatment each time. https://www.youtube.com/@MARKALVEETVMasaheKing

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Thank you!

Sheraton by the Convention Center ... but someone else is paying for that!

Visiting in March. Any feedback on the go-go boys there?

Has the evidence expanded to more than one study yet?

Hotel Mercurio

My two most enjoyable massages this year were with: Drew in Tampa https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/34094/ Ross in Honolulu https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36027/ Both were friendly and had great technique.

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Pet rodent?

When I attended, the "hot game" was a contest among four guests: who was best at deep-throating a banana? Strippers were about as interactive as they would be in the open areas in a stripper bar. You tip, you get a little more attention. Not sure if there opportunities for private lap dances ... I left before the party ended.

Visiting for the first time March 15-20. If anyone there wants to meet to hang out, grab a bite, exchange notes, etc., feel free to message me.

I would have to agree with JFL. Great experience with Drew.

The room is in the back, where any number of dancers are entertaining clients. Not a private room. $20 per song, although I suggest you use the timer on your smartphone and have the dancer agree to $20 every four minutes. Otherwise, if you start mid-song, or have a short song, you might not get your money's worth.