I agree that those exclusionary comments are disturbing, but also that upfront honesty is good and saves time, money, embarrassment, and disappointment. It's a dilemma.
But:
I wonder if a casual "so tell me about yourself what nationality are you.." etc query from a scort when talking texting emailing with a client would be a more PC way to determine if he wants to see the client.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys don't seem to be very willing to engage in preliminary conversation any more. Recently I contacted a very well-reviewed (on this site and others) escort that I was very interested in seeing through his ad. His reviews say not only how great he was, but also that he is really interested in his clients, easy to talk to and make arrangements with, etc. He sent me the usual "what's up?" type response. I sent him back an email saying that I was expecting to be in his city on certain dates and would like to get together with him. And I asked him several questions about arrangements (not about activities), like was he going to be there then, was he free on a certain date, his rate, and one or two others. The talk about what I was interested in, a little about me, etc., would come in the next round. In return I got back an email that contained nothing but a three-digit number. Since I hadn't said anything about myself or about what I was interested in doing, he couldn't have been blowing me off because I was the wrong age or color or wanted to do something kinky or bizarre, etc. Needless to say, he did not get my business, and that was the end of the "conversation".
