I am a middle aged bi and dont often hire escorts (2-3x year) but when I do, I want to bottom. Problem is I have to take it slow, since i am tight. I always make it a point to stress to the top that I am looking for taking it very easy, no fast pumping. Since I have hired escorts in the past ten years, only 2-3 tops have really done a good job in understanding this - surprisingly one was Trevor Knight. But in the past few years, the tops always say sure they understand and it is obvious they dont. I end up asking them to stop. I was watching some porn and saw a very sexy clip on Mormongays where this top daddy eases into Elder Ence - it is such a turn on.
I was wondering if there is a particular way to describe this to an escort so that they could understand it. If I could have that sort of sex I would probably pay double their rate. Any recommendations?