DERRIK

Men kisses are regular in many cultures, and has nothing to do with homo eroticism. In Argentina, we all cheek kiss, In Morocco I have seen men serial cheek kissing, in Russia they kiss on the lips, and none of these situations has nothing to do with homosexuality. 

I prefer to focus on things I can control
Cannot spend time trying to figure out what if or how come
Its likely we're not meant to know all answers

I prefer to focus on things I can control
Cannot spend time trying to figure out what if or how come
Its likely we're not meant to know all answers

I prefer to focus on things I can control
Cannot spend time trying to figure out what if or how come
Its likely we're not meant to know all answers

You cannot go wrong by meeting him

Spectacularly awesome pool party. Thank you to Oliver as well as his helpers with the delicious food and fun pool toys. It's a secret joy about the party I like with the video montage of clothes-less hotties on the computer screen while we're waiting our turn to use the potty. I so enjoyed meeting new people, catching up with people I saw last year, and just "letting it all stub out" a bit before heading home. The heavy wind blew quite a bit of White Claw into the water, so I may be a little tipsy as I'm typing this! 😃

And on a much, much, lighter note....
Q. What does John Elway have in common with OJ's getaway vehicle?
A. They are both slow-moving, white Broncos.
BTC

Then there’s this: New Yorker View of World

Correct.
Sex work was never mentioned....and to set the record straight. I generally hire masseurs, not sex workers. Not that I am opposed to hiring a sex worker if I am wowed enough.
In general, my religious background rarely mentions sex at all. So thankfully I didn't have to grow up with the shame that Catholics typically endure.

$3,000 total? For 2 x 5 nights? That’s dirt cheap!

That's what you tell yourself, but that's not the truth.

After a really poor massage, a cute masseur told me he wasn’t really a masseur.  He said, “I’m really an actor.”
So I told him, “Next time, act like a masseur!”

Shouldn't that be, "Thank no one I'm an atheist!"?

Skyline Chili may be America's quirkiest culinary idiom.
The signature dish of Cincinnati, Ohio — it's also the name of the casual-dining chain that made it famous — is nothing more than spaghetti topped with chili and piled high with shredded cheddar cheese.
"It's weird to a lot of people," Sherry Tomlinson, whose grandfather and father, Nick and Bill Lambrinides, were two of the co-founders of Skyline Chili, told Fox News Digital in an interview.
"People either love it or it's just not their thing," she said. "But people who love it become addicted to it."
Skyline Chili boasts an appealing retro diner-counter vibe, the charms of the Skyline brand compounded by its own lingo.
Skyline's famous spaghetti with "secret-recipe" chili and cheese is simply called 3 Way.
Add diced onion or beans, and it's called 4 Way; add both, and it's known as 5 Way.
Skyline Chili also offers Coneys. That name is derived from Coney Island, New York, home of the annual 4th of July Nathan's Famous Hot Dog Eating Contest.
The short, stubby hot dogs are "specially made" for Skyline Chili, according to its menus. Coneys are served on a bun with mustard, the house chili and available with cheese or without.
A small 3 Way plus a cheese Coney and soda, eaten in-house with friendly diner counter service, cost just $13.09 with tax during a recent visit to the Ludlow Avenue Skyline Chili in Cincinnati's Clifton neighborhood.
It's a bona fine bargain in terms of cost per calorie.
The price point is certainly rare in this day and age when a fast-food meal for one person to go can come in at $24.
Restaurant industry experts marvel at Skyline Chili's operational efficiency.
Everything on the menu is ready before guests walk in the door and sits in plain view behind the counter as they order. The spaghetti is cooked, the chili stewed, the hot dogs griddled, the cheese shredded.
It takes just seconds to fill orders for an entire table.
Nick Lambrinides, an immigrant from Greece, founded Skyline in 1949 with his four sons.
Tomlinson, the granddaughter, said she has "no idea where he got the idea" for Skyline Chili, though she did note he worked as a cook on the railroads.
Its recipe remains a closely guarded secret.
"All I can say is that my grandpa loved garlic. It was a flavor that was very interesting to him," said Tomlinson.
The main ingredient in Skyline Chili, its diehards argue, is its indefinable deliciousness.
"Skyline Chili is a perfect food and I will tolerate no slander of it," Cincinnati-area native Mat Kinsman wrote in a breathless tribute last year in Food & Wine magazine..
He cited clove, nutmeg, cinnamon and "God knows what else" as some of its ingredients.
Kinsman also said, "To those of us who grew up in the Greater Cincinnati area, this stuff is mother's milk … It's a Cincinnati thing, look it up — and it's the pride of the Queen City."

THAT LOOKS SO GROSS

https://www.aol.com/news/skyline-chili-quirky-culinary-tradition-140311065.html
 

Perhaps looking at this routinely beaten dead horse discussion this way will help put things into perspective:
Like gridlocked political parties, you're probably not going to sway the other side with your point of view.
So...  Why waste your energy?  
You keep doing whatever works for you.  Don't try to control what other people do or don't do.
If you can follow these rules, life becomes so much easier.

Run for congress as Republicans.

The latest in yoga pants. 😁

Would a lawyer or doctor agree to an appointment at 2 a.m.?  Most would not.  They would happily forgo the extra income in order to not interrupt their daily/nightly routine.

There are good and bad hires in all markets. 
Overinflated ego sometimes is in the eyes of the beholder (client). 

Taking the plunge - I off to Tokyo next week.  
I plan to sample Tokyo - Kids, Heros, King of College
Any current experiences - tips - you are welcome to share or PM me

I have never really understood this kind of gossip.  Unless someone is being outed who is otherwise a homophobe -- particularly a homophobe in a position to help enact anti-gay laws -- doesn't the person deserve privacy and a right to tell their own story whenever and however they want?  Even if it's just gossip about someone's sexual activity and not their sexual orientation, I don't see what business it is for other people to discuss. 
I get the "wish fulfillment" aspect of it, but if I was someone famous I know I wouldn't want people who don't even know me gossiping about my sex life.