Glad you figured it all out in time Mike. Me as a client I try to make a point when I hire someone for the first time to not discuss any details on what I expect to happen,
just agree to pay for time, or in some cases just a massage, and then see what happens. ( I do use this forum and daddys reviews to try to make sure I get someone well reviewed )
I am a little more comfortable to do requests on a 2nd meeting, but never ever in the same discussion as the rate. I rather take the risk of having a "bad" session where nothing happens
then take the risk of being nailed for paying for sex. Anyway stay safe and always error on the safe side.....
M.