BryanKnight

Sometimes we meet on a job, sometimes we network, sometimes we have personal interests that overlap. We don't bring up our mutual professions unless we are talking shop.

I change the photos and wait for them to come to me. I'll mention my work and direct them to my links. If they ask, then I send thm to my webpage to discuss negotations. The biggest issue I have is being seen by more, lol, because there is still hiring happening there, just limits on location to the general public.

How big a fist? size 14 here. Bryan Knight www.rentmen.com/BryanKnight

You can learn from the older ways of meeting your customers and integrate them into a modern setting. An online ad will never substitute for a feeling of connection you get with a person from meeting them face to face. You can be more physically visible in places and meet more people, like a salesperson, a public speaker, or anyone in the hospitality industry. Add these techniques to your tool kit and you will adapt better in a world looking for authentic connection

Yes. That sounds shady.

And thank you too! You warm my heart.

That is so sweet of you to say. Thank you.

It's a double standard that the public often refuses to recognize. Take it for what it is, improve where you can, make your money. Keep the reality in sight at all times, even if you entertain their fantasies. Criticisms, even unpolished, crass or monosyllabic, can still be helpful to you because you can glean areas that need your attention. I heard this quote, "Assholes are the best at telling you hard truths. They don't care about your feelings and will not filter." I've used criticisms that are not 'nice' and turned them into building materials for improvement. Because the worst thing that can happen to you as a businessman is to fail at your efforts and no one speak up about WHY you are not succeeding. For instance, the most common insult I have heard is that I have a 'Frankenstein head.' It's large and square and long. So I used that to adjust my hair style and angles of my photos to turn the flaw into an asset. Also, here was the unexpected lesson of criticisms. Men challenge each other. Biological imperative for dominance and social hierarchy. If they can upset you, then you have submitted to them. By handling criticism with polish, self composure and temperance, you automatically increase your value as an escort and a human being in their eyes. Because you can handle small things (their fickle thoughts and feelings) and still take charge confidently. They don't understand why you're confident, but it will still impress them.

It's not something to take personally. It's a preference, like you have preferences.