FWIW: I usually don't read threads with unclear or vague subjects.
For example, your post "Reddish Boy" might have gotten more attention with subject "411 ReddishBoy in NYC"
I'm on android 8.10. Mostly it seems to learn my preferences on its own. But I tweak it using the "do not disturb" feature and prioritizing individuals in my "contacts". I assume the iPhone has similar options.
I don't use WhatsApp.
I bought smartphones and stopped worrying about late calls.
My work phone goes to VM after 6pm.
My personal phone always goes to VM unless the caller is white-listed (in contacts). My friends know to text or leave a message.
A couple of numbers are red-listed (my daughter, alarm service). They ring even when my phone is muted.
If your computer guy hasn't figured this stuff out, he doesn't deserve your business.
Mocha, don't you read the forums? We don't hate escorts. We desire them, enjoy their company, value their services, grow attached to them, and occasionally fall in love with them. Please catch your breath and look around. This is a friendly crowd.
It goes both ways:
Men who advertise their limits are jerks. I'm not attracted to jerks. I don't want to fuck them.
I share my stats before meeting, to warn off men who won't want to fuck me.
Foreign language tattoos are a hopeful sign of multiculturalism, the opposite of white nationalism.
But I believe the stories. My immigrant parents pushed us to study languages and I sometimes see men inked with gibberish in easier languages than Chinese.